[kellyn]

Well, i guess we are on the same page. Things are more calm and turn back to their routine which are good.

[kellyn]

Hi Pedro, long time no see. How r u doing?

When i am writing this post, i am thinking do i need to write it.

Well, first of all. I think the website works. It helps me catch my ex‘attention, and i do have time to ‘get back’. Second, woa, there are so much posts in here since i haven’t went to the website. All of these people are going through the same issue. Do you believe that?

I wanna share with you this. He and I have times to meet back, but the result is never change. If thing didn’t work on the beginning, it will not work now. We aren’t in a final breakup yet, but the conversation between he and i is getting less by time. We didn’t text each other for days and we still fine. Now i felt i am stronger, and i accept what happens in the future. I think that sometimes you love someone, it doesn’t mean you have to be with them.

[kellyn]

I think that’s too much.

[kellyn]

Well, if that was me, i just keep stay friend with him. If i already decided he is not the special guy i want, nothing can change it. In another case, if i still have feelings with my ex, i am not gonna be friend.

For my opinion, it is too dramatic if u send her that. It almost scares me away tho, tbh.

[kellyn]

You are really patient guy. I hope she will know how lucky she is. Wish you all the luck!

[kellyn]

Pedro, there are nothing else you can do, try to be her friend please. I can see you are getting tired too, right? So why don’t take it easy for both of you. Don’t take a high hope for getting back together, when thing comes, they will come.

This was what i think : my relationship is supposed to be easy and happy because i need a place that i can find peace and comfort, outside world is difficult for me already. Therefore i do less overthinking, and try to create as much as good memories. Tell the truth, we are have good time, but i am still not sure he is truely love me, or how long this relationship is gonna be. But i don’t care so much about this, like today he didn’t text me morning text or any text, i am still ok. I hope you understand what i mean. U need more independent on emotions. Focus on your feelings, you did good things to her, you are happy. I have good time with him, i am happy. That is.

[kellyn]

Dear Pedro,

Thank you for your help to listen and give me some advices in this site. I and my guy are getting back together. I think thing is going well so far.

We didn’t talk here for a while. How was it going from your side?

[kellyn]

LOL

[kellyn]

Yah. I did at afternoon. I said ‘are you mad? don’t be mad, i am sorry’. Things sound funny already. Lol

[kellyn]

From my side, still not receive msg from him. I think he is mad. Lol

[kellyn]

I am so sorry to hear that. Hope that she will text you soon. I know, relationship is hard. It gives u all the confusion and hurts you. But somehow you will know it is worth for being with the right person.

Thank you. Ok. I see.

[kellyn]

Yah, u need patient for sure. If you have plans, ask her as a friend. Wish you all the luck and also Happy New Year Pedro!

This morning, when i wake up, i see a text from him. ‘you didn’t msg me when you got home’. I texted back ‘sorry, i am safe’ , ‘good morning’. Now is afternoon, he still doesn’t text back to me. I think he gets mad at me. Lol

[kellyn]

I see. Thank you.

Aww, such a romantic when you both fall asleep on each other.
Sometimes there r good silent.

Well, like what u said to me, don’t overthinking, go with the flow, i think you shoul do the same way. Donot we talk about being friend with her, so why you r still so confused what you should do.

Be her friend, if you miss her and wanna talk to her, hang out with her as a friend. U know what, i think it is a good idea that you tell her that, you want to give more time to her for her decision of going back together. Tell her that you will be her best friend, she will have your back. Tell her that don’t need to rush or overthinking, but she needs to give u a final answer because you are waiting to. Goodluck

[kellyn]

For the night, we just watched some movies, laugh about the movies. He just hug and lean on my shoulder. and we just acted casual, didn’t talk anything else. Also, He stayed far away when he smokes, and when i asked him to do something, he did. For example, i said the movie was boring, he wanna change to another one, and i said his mouth has cigarette smell, he uses some Listerine. My mind now is so empty. What does all this things mean?

Also, he looks different, he loses some weight and more happier, he looks so handsome and great.

[kellyn]

Thank you, goodluck to you too.

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