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I am very happy for you @LAbound.You were patient and gave lot of advice,wish you most and more…
I am on 62 days of NC and my g/f has only contacted me only once to get her resume that’s it and checked how I am doing.
Not sure how things will be at my end but I am so happy to hear your story.Oh in this case its tough,i did same thing with my ex g/f for 4 years and its been close to one year and she is not back yet and I am on NC and its been more than 60 days.Chances are slim but there is hope.
Sometimes he might say that he doesn’t have feelings for you but it is not always right.
Just do NC for 30/45 days and keep low profile, You will get results in this period of NC.OK…Just do NC and don’t contact him, especially I didn’t like the idea that he has this new girl so quick and he started dating her.
I am a guy its been a approx. a year but I never thought of g/f or dating someone yet, even though I have been dumped by ex g/f and she doesn’t want to come back and told me numerous times to move on as she has moved on,we were together for 4 years.
Just behave normal on social media OR disconnect everything for atleast 45/60 days and see results.It is very hard but that is the only resort left for you.I guess if his current relationship gets over or if they fight that is the only time he will come back.But if the current girl make him feel good,comfortable or he see more better future with her than you,the chances are slim.
Are you middle eastern ? and what time zone are you in ?
1) How long you were together ?
2) Who did break off ?
3) Did you begged,cried,needy ?
4) How come he got g/f so quick and started hanging out ?
5) Why are you showing off so much on social media ?NC is the only option for you and you should respond to her call and text but be very polite and limited and talk whatever the topic is,try to make her happy and don’t show her your internal feelings or pain.
I will complete my 60 days NC March 1st and my g/f emailed me only once and her friend texted me once,so I replied both times but was very limited in my reply.May be like you act in a interview.
Improving behavior helps,girls generally doesn’t care about other things,like having six packs,or nice cars etc,so wait for her call or text but same time don’t be very hopeful about it,as every girl and situation is different,mine is very stubborn and I lost all hope,last march I also gave her ring same week and now Its been 9 months that break up happen and I am in same boat,only difference is that I started doing NC from Jan 13 and previously I begged,cried,became a doormat.
Good luck
Agree with tami420 @ I am on my NC and in approx. 60 days completion on March 13 my ex has asked me for resume and how I am doing and last week her best friend texted me for some work and asked me how I am doing.
So I would suggest as tami do NC and mind your own business,even tho it is the hardest thing to do but that is the good option.
Trust me I tried everything before doing NC but nothing worked some people are stubborn and take lot of time to come from pain my gf is one of them.Good luckI fully agree with Juan10 and tammi @
She is liking your picture either to get your attention,or she started missing you and playing with your head.I have been well played with my ex g/f and not sure what to do.I was in 4 yrs relationship and started my NC on Jan 13,after almost 45 days my g/f emailed me and asked me for her resume and how I am doing which I replied after couple of hours that I am doing good,please find resume attached and now her friend texted me for some house that I should find for her to rent as I do real estate.
So I was very hoping that this is good news so than after reading the posts I came to know that she is playing mind games and I should not get very excited and stop NC,so I am still on NC and completing my 60 days on March 13 and I don’t plan to send any letter at all,if she is interested she will find the ways to talk,she is the one who dumped.
So continue NC and this is the last option left,dont like her pictures and also don’t show off too much on facebook either.OK ?
It is looking tough in your case to be upfront as she has new guy,your relationship time was not very long and esp your suicidal thoughts freaked her out.You should never think or do anything stupid like this.
But right now work on yourself and keep moving,time will heal the pain.Plus NC is the only option left for you.
If she gets kicked out from her current b/f she will come back to you but don’t have your hopes high.
My relationship was 4 years and I took her granted all this 4 years and she did a lot to me plus I am not sure if my g/f is in any relationship,she doesn’t jump into any relationship or friendship so quick but yes she is stubborn kind and did enough for me for 4 years and I always took her granted,so I accepted all my mistakes but as per her its too late but I really love so I will keep hopes up,if I see her hanging out with other dude than she was not for me because than she was using all issues as EXCUSES to move on with other guy.
tighem @ I know it sucks big time…yes when I got her email approx. 40 days of my NC,it gave me hope but again after last email there is no communication whatsoever from her side.
I am not begging or doing anything anymore,i did enough for 6/7 months and trust me I did everything possible to get her back but no she was just DONE and decided not to come back at all.I will complete my 60 days on March 13th but plan to write a letter approx. June of this year,the actual day we got into fight last year.But overall I lost hope that we will be together and it will be a good relationship like before,i know I will be very scared to move forward with her in case she comes back but chances are almost none in my case as it will be almost a year in June this year.
Surprise how life changes and a person who cant live without you for second changes so quick…:((
What is your status ? Is she cold and distant and been very negative to you,and how long you were in relationship and what happened.
Oh wow congrats LAgirl..keep it up and happy for you.I am on approx. day 48 and there is no contact from my ex,she emailed me after 40 days or so and asked me how I am doing and a copy of her resume,which she has in her email already..so I don’t know if it works out for everyone or will in future….but I guess this is the last option anyways ?
Enjoy your time LA girl @
As a guy you should give him one more chance,i think everyone deserves one and its fair.You can always start slow and see how things are and make your moves accordingly.I am guy who took my g/f for granted in 4 year relationship and once she was gone,i begged,cried,1000s times sorry,became her door mat,changed lot of things but she never gave me a chance.And this hurted me very much and I am very becoming very strong & unemotional person now,which I never wanted to become in my life.So it is always good idea to give a chance as long as other person accepts the mistakes and make required changes.Rest is up to you I am not expert !
