[kalicooldude]

You will have hard time especially when you love someone.Anything precious to our hearts,if it goes away it surely hurts.
If it was your mistake say apology first before doing NC but if you have tried everything and didn’t work than you should do NC.
I am coming out of relationship of 4 years and its been 6/7 months my g/f is very cold and told me numerous times to move on,it happened when I blocked her for few days and went vacation without her.She totally got changed and negative towards me.I tried everything possible in this world but not NC now I am in 3rd week of NC and I know it hurts exp when you wake up in morning or when you are not working.
Hang in there,hope it works out for you and me.

[kalicooldude]

Yup,that is the only last resort left..so trying in out.

[kalicooldude]

Well she is already strong that’s why she broke up with me its just me who has to regain my self respect and become stronger,like kevin said on website that there is difference between need and what you want.

I really want her and tried all options before,now will try to NC and see results.

I am hopeful it will work out but you never know every relationship and situation is different.
She will get good idea I guess when I will not text or do anything on Valentine day @

[kalicooldude]

I am not sure to send her this text,let her figure it out and keep thinking,once I send her this text she will think that I am trying to re-connect again with her,morever she had already blocked me.
So I think I am going to keep myself quiet for 2/3 months and see her reaction.

I did already did enough of begging,pleading,gifts,sorry,flowers,choclates,crying etc etc.

I don’t know if she is seeing someone else,i doubt but sometimes it is always a possibility.

Lets see and hope for best.My g/f really loved me and she was chasing me before and right after she got cold and distant I started chasing her and we both fucked up I guess.

[kalicooldude]

I did NC earlier but it only last for 3 weeks and in middle of doing NC I sent my friend to follow her and see if she has any other guy,She saw him and changed her cell phone the next day.I got panic and called her and begged her again to come back and I am sorry for whatever has happened.But she was still cold and negative and gave all reasons for break up as she is been doing from last 6/7 months.Then I started doing NC again and I promised myself that I will never break my NC no matter what happens.
I started again on Jan 13th so its almost 17 days and I haven’t not heard back from her yet.My g/f is very stubborn type so I will do NC for atleast 3 months.And I am sure she is expecting my text on valentine which I will not do at any cost and made her think.

I wont start NC rightaway first it is apology for mistakes you made and if that doesn’t work our for lets say 2-3 months than start NC (the last hope to get your ex back )

[kalicooldude]

Oh Same time every time we talk oh phone or text(may be once in 10 days) she said all negative things about me,for example I blocked her on cell for 17 days,i went to vacation without her,i insulted her in front of my friend,i didn’t marry her when she was begging me to get married,i used her for sex,my mother is bitch,my daughter always came in middle of our relationship etc etc.
She keeps repeating this all from 6 months and not getting tired of this,plus she tells me oh now its too late,she don’t want to come back to relationship,she wishes I should have thought this earlier,she will never forgive me,she will not come back even I die,she is happy without me and doing good blah blah blah.

[kalicooldude]

Hi Rahul @ I thought you are doing NC,so why did you message her.She will be acting like this
1) She will not care about you at all.
2) She will not respond to you.
3) She don’t want to talk about you.
4) She will be ignorant,rude and distant.
5) She might be very pissed off as of her past,mostly it happens when the girl have very serious intention towards you and at your end you didn’t bother or cared and took her for granted.

I am in same boat like yours but I did enough and now will do NC,also sometimes there is possibility that they did found new guy which is giving her full attention and love she anticipated from you when you were in relationship.

So chances are 50/50 again I am not expert my situation is similar like yours.My girlfriend is also in anger,distant and rude from last 6 months it all happened when I blocked her from my cell for 2 weeks.I did everything possible except NC so this is my last resort and will have results soon.

[kalicooldude]

Thanks @ Melinda not sure if my g/f sill has some feelings for me,its been 7 months so don’t have an accurate answer for it.But,I am hoping she does,she is the one who told me to move on and stopped communication after I blocked her for 15 days.I know if she got really hurt or found some new guy..not sure about this.

Thanks @ Rahul I didn’t beg but I did sorry 1000s times because I knew my faults and where I was wrong but I guess its too late to apologize now.I will try to do NC and see if this will help me out.Its not easy but there is no options either.

[kalicooldude]

Rahul @

I have the same lines that you mentioned below and I tried every possible things from last 6 months to get her back.It can be giving her cards,sorry 1000s times,gifts,flowers etc but she didn’t even bug and very stubborn of not coming back to my life.She chased me for approx. 2 years to get married and now I have been chasing from last 6 months and she is cold,ignorant,non communicative,hates me etc.

Oh by the way now I am trying to do NC and today is my 13th day and its hard but we got nothing to loose right ?

I really don’t know what will happen to my situation,just very hopeless but will know after NC

You said :-
1. she really hates me
2. she’s very much angry with me and don’t want to talk.
3.she never miss me a single moment even if she is online in any messenger
4.she don’t want to forget all the bad moments held in past.
5.she filled with all negativity about me…and get irritated with me.

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