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Hi,
Just try to continue to do everything in your power to show her you care. Send her cheap flowers to her house or job, text her whenever you can, etc. She agreed To go to counseling so she wants to make it work.I wish you the very best. If after all your attempts still go unnoticed and cold, then it may be time to think about what you really want.
Hi Patricia,
I’m curious how your situation is going?
There is always room to make things right again, but I think he would need to see someone else to appreciate you as hurtful as that sounds. I hope he comes back to you and that this works out in your favor.Hi. After so much has happened, you really have to let this go for a little while. You cannot contact her at all because I think this guy is a rebound. When they are done, she is going to want you back. However, it might take them 4 months, it might take them 7 months. Are you willing to wait? Maybe, maybe not. Hopefully for you, it is only a few months before she realizes that she loves you and you loved her truly.
It makes it harder since her family has such a strong influence on her. She has people who are frequently telling her to stay away from you. She doesn’t want to disappoint them.
The best thing you could have done was end on a happy note.
I wish you the best and I hope time brings you both back together.
Hello,
From a woman’s perspective it seems as if she had feelings for this guy for quite some time, even if that’s not what you want to hear. It’s new, it’s fun, it’s exciting.
However, the good news is, when he messes up, when he’s not there for her like you were there for her, when he doesn’t spoil her the way you spoiled her, I do believe she will think to herself what a nice guy you were and how great she had it with you. The thing is, this may take 2 weeks, may take 2 months, or it might take 8 months. Give it time. Go to the gym. Get your confidence up. Buy new outfits. Do not make yourself so available to her anymore. She is being cold to you. It’s time for you to show her you are doing ok without her so she can miss youand play it cool. I do feel confident you will get a message from her, it’s just unfortunate she had to be the one to tell you that she needs space. It might have been more beneficial to you if you were the one to have said that. However, give it time. You seem like a great guy. I hope this works out in your favor.
