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Thats good to hear, hope he can help when you need em, and yes i dont take money i m just a friend ๐
Hey mate,
Stop what you are doing right now, you need to recreate your self again to gain her love back, right now you need close friend to help youout with this, be with you when you panic,
Tell you what you need to do,
I was like you, feeling like i m in a dark place until someone helped me out
If you have a person keep him close, if you dont message me at
I will always be there for you
You breakup with him, the best thing is to chat with him normaly and keep the past away, be in control of what you say
Usually who do cost the breakup dont care but i can tell you are pretty great girl and things will go good on you
Religion is not a problem if you love each other and if you wanna try to love him again I’ll let you know how you do it for now give yourself distance sometimes but whenever you talk with him just talk normally about normal things and if you keep him near you sooner later you want think of him like he is your boyfriend
Any help i m here
Do not focus on hurting her and focus on you, text her this:
Hello ( Name )
I hope you doing well, I wanted to let you know that while i’m packing my stuff I found somethings belong to you, would you like to come over to get them when you have time.
Ciao
Remember, Don’t panic or act needy, hug her if she wanted to but dont over react.
You can be in control when you know how good you are and how amazing things you done for her and suddenly she changes not you,
I meet her online and we loved eaxhother, after months i went half the world to see her, I did not care about money, Job, House, i took what i can and went to see her, i stayed there for one week and then left to go home, few days she start acting strange and things seema not alright, so i asked her to be close friends for now and i messed up later, i removed her from my facebook and blocked her everywhere, i messed her lot and i did that to give my self space to not think of her,
Later i sent her a letter why i did it and she blocked me too and removed me,
Few days later on her birthday i sent her a nessage and she said thank you and did not deleted me, so i will start once again and see how things goes
I am still working on lots of things, and one of them is to focus on my self even she dont reach out to me, i will make sure when i reaxh out for her she goinf to fall in love with me again, i am in the 4th day NC and will try to contact her on the 7th or 10th.
I want you to keep something in your mind and please dont messup things like i did, YOUR GIRL HAS NOT MOVED ON, it can not happened that fast, also if she is with him because of you, she can not forget you, so just work on your things, be better of your self and once its the time to contact her, she will will feel something is different
Be great, stay greatest
I am not quite sure about that but would you think jealousy might messup things more, you can take 2 pictures so it doesnt look obvious that you trying to ger her also, this might effect you too, you will be woundring if she saw it, if it bothered her now, and right now you dont need that,
My suggestion is dont try to fet her pissed at you and make things look beautiful, then when you have the chance to talk with her, she wont think of those things like you made her jealous or angry, and she will talk to you normal about the things you want
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Does that make sence
You are doing great, why you are so worried mate?!
Look a sign that she is with this new guy is to get over you but she cant, she want this guy to remove you from her thoughts, her brain is all over you and believe it or not, she probably thinking of you all the time
So NC will help lot and things will go good, if she called or text, do not ignore, ever, just replay and be nice, don’t mention break up or getting back together, how are you hows everything, when she ask how are you, say i am ok
You are doing beautiful just keep going
All you need to know texting at the moment is not a good option let it go for one week and then try to reach her out but this time take her out for a coffee or dinner just be casual be nice and be friendly if she didn’t want to go out to do say it’s not going to take long time its only 30 minutes we just going to have a coffee if she accepted don’t to ever bring break up or how you feel only be nice and casual nd fun to talk with I can guarantee you if you did it right things will get better and after few days she will unblock you,
I know you can reach her out and think about how to do it and when to do it, don’t look needy or desperate or it’s going to rain your chances of getting her back, I know how smart you are and why I know that because you are here to fix the problem going in the relationship,
I know you can do it I have faith on you, I don’t know much about your relationship but what I know about mine it was worst kind of relationships but you know what after all the list bad of things that I have done she umblocked me and she talks with me most of the time but things didn’t get well so I did not want to get back with her however in ur relationship I know you can do much better, I wish you good luck
It looks like he want you to chase him and when you don’t he come to talk to you, use this right and it can help you get pretty good chance
You can have yor own ideas too i just told you what i did ๐ , if you need any help or talk to somebuddy , i am always here for you
When i wrote my letter i took my neckless and gave it to her, i use a case for my neckless to keep it safe and used my perfume, what i am saying is you can send another hand writen letter with new strategy
If you had send a hand writen letter, did she contact you after it, and when you sent it
What kind of relationship is it, LD or normal?
First, you need to stop messaging lot, whenever you send something wait for a day or two, if there is no answer call her one time a day
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