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Hope 54, I read this comment and thought so much of my current situation. I feel exactly the same way, but I am not as stubborn as you are… I CAN’T believe that he has not asked me how I am doing… for many reasons. Will try to keep some distance between us for a bit longer. Let’s see how it goes.
Thanks.
Well. It’s been a long time since I don’t write here. I am needing as much help as possible. PLEASE
My ex and I kept in contact after the breakup, it’s been 5 months. We never met for a coffee as he promised several times. bear in mind that we broke up because he was moving to NYC and I was supposed to stay in Miami… that’s what he said at that time.
After that I had an offer to come and work to NYC as well and I accepted since the job and salary were so good… It took a huge toll for me to accept since I did not want him to think that I was accepting to retrieve our relationship, or giving us a second opportunity… However I faced the problem by letting him know that I work here now and that I am settling down for a bit. I let him know because I thought it was immature not doing it and bumping into him one random morning in the subway…
He texted me a month ago and asked me how I was, and explained me that his life has been crazy for the last few weeks. That was all. I replied explaining him that I am busy too, that I have been looking for a rent here in Manhattan, blah blah blah…
He has not replied or said anything else… He has been in a hook up app!
This is killing me. I don’t know if I will ever see him again… and we are in the same city! I feel so frustrated… On one hand I don’t want to push him by saying anything. He is so hermetic but I think I deserve at least being asked how am I doing, this is a new city and I am not even American! On the other, I would like to let him know how I really feel. Can’t get him out of my heart and head. Please advise me!!!!!!!!!Well. It’s been a long time since I don’t write here. I am needing as much help as possible. PLEASE
My ex and I kept in contact after the breakup for two months. We never met for that coffee, it was all crazy and cold I must say, it was all text messages during and after breaking up.
Remind please that we broke up because he was moving to NYC and I was supposed to stay in Miami… that’s what he said at that time.
After that I had an offer to come and work to NYC as well and I accepted since the job and salary were so good… It took a huge toll for me to accept since I did not want him to think that I was accepting to retrieve our relationship, or giving us a second opportunity… However I faced the problem by letting him know that I work here now and that I am settling down for a bit. I let him know because I thought it was immature not doing it and meet him one random morning in the subway…
He texted me like four days ago and asked me how I was, and explained me that his life has been crazy for the last few weeks. That was all. I replied explaining him that I am busy too, on top looking for a rent here in Manhattan, blah blah blah…
He has not replied or said anything else… he is just in Grindr all the time.
This is killing me. I don’t know if I will ever see him again… and we are in the same city! I feel so frustrated… On one hand I don’t want to push him or text him, or do anything else. On the other, I would like to let him know how I really feel. Can’t get him out of my heart and head. Please advise me!!!!!!!!!
