[hopefullywaiting]

Happy to hear you are staying positive!

I completed 30 days no contact last week. We have slowly and surely been making contact. He actually called me today! Taking things slow for now.

The first days are the most difficult since you are breaking the routine of talking to your ex. I recommend to just continue staying busy and focus on yourself. It sounds like you are taking all the right steps. And reading the emails help.

I think time helps. Hopefully at some point you’ll be able to reconnect, that’s of course if you want to.

Best of luck and sending some positive vibes to you from the states!

[hopefullywaiting]

Hi Lin,

Any new updates since you first posted? I’m going through something similar. I too was told we were incompatible. It all surprised me.

How is no contact going?

[hopefullywaiting]

catherine,

i recommend doing the 30 days no contact. focus on yourself during this time. don’t check his social media accounts or reach out to his friends. do things that make you happy.

i just finished my 30 days and while moments are still rough, they are so much better than day 1. and while i’m not together with my ex, the lines of communication have been reopened.

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