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There were definitely more good times than bad. Our relationship isnt immature. In fact, our relationship was very serious and we were kind of in a grown-up like relationship. I also thought about what you said on her wanting to experience life as a young single lady and making decisions that she will regret later on. But she is very vulnerable and gullible. Therefore that makes her an easy target to take advantage on. She is also very trusting even though she just met them. I’m just afraid that a lot of people are going to take advantage of her and get her to have unprotected sex. Since we’ve had multiple times of unprotected sex. But I can pull out at the right time and I’m 90% sure other people cant or will fail to do so and end up getting her pregnant or infected with AIDS. I dont want her to experience all that like what most of young single ladies experience now days. It will be too late for her to regret everything. You guys might say I’m selfish or couldn’t let go of her because I feel bad if I let her go she’ll end up doing dangerous stuff but I can tell you straight up right now. No. I truly love and care about her. That is why I want to protect her. But I dont know what I can do now.. Please give me more advice on what I should/can do.
Thank you for your reply. We’ve broken up a few times before because she was stressed about school so she wants to focus on that. But I already know she is not gonna devote all her time to study because I know her well. Another time is when we got mad at each other for puny tiny things and then we stopped talking and she met this other dude that confessed to her. She liked him but she failed to see that he is a bad person. After she got back with me, the guy immediately got a girlfriend. She finally realized he wasnt a good person. Third time we broke up is because she got tired of my childish personality. I just wanted to be playful but it ended up annoying her. I am 19 years old turning 20 and she just turned 18. I think this time is going to be different because we overcame most of our problems together and this time she broke up with me without talking to me. She never told me what was wrong in her life and whats causing her trouble. She didnt give me a chance to help her and fix things.
Another thing I’m worried about is that she is in a sorority right now so shes meeting a lot of new people.. a lot of guys.. she recently got two guy “favs” meaning favorites from the brotherhood fraternity. She’s been talking to one fav a lot and I feel like hes trying to flirt with her. Saying stuff like “Oh youre my one and only fav” but he actually got other girl favs. He is the one that my ex took pictures with and gave her presents. One night at a party, my ex got drunk and passed out and this “fav” took care of her. I think she even laid on him while she was knocked out. Ever since then theyve been texting a lot. So right now im afraid she broke up with me to get with him… Just earlier I saw her snapchat story of her leaning on his shoulders and taking pictures with him behind her. I dont know if shes sitting on his lap or hes hugging her from behind or theyre just standing. My ex isnt the type of person to text, msg, or call anyone. So she wouldnt never make first contact with me after NC. I feel like she isnt going to miss me either because shes having so much fun going out and meeting new people.. and IF SHE DOES has a crush on her fav then I’m afraid I wouldnt matter to her anymore… Please give me more advice on this.
