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You have to detatch yourself from her a bit, become more like you were before, only two things can come out from this.
When you move on, you build up yourself, and if she comes back you win, if not, you win because u have moved on. Read the 5 steps, you are in the NC now, then its time to become more confident, become happy again, if she comes, thats great, if not, you are already great. Of course, its easy said than done, however, you have to make the stuf that you should do before contacting her, there is a check list=)was this today? then maybe, “sorry for being like that, sorry to hear about your situation, im sure it will all be allright, take care”
hey, found it!
Well the way you wrote the last was a bit hars, you could have written “sorry to hear, it will ba allright im sure=) take care”
But it is what it is, so keep on the NC.Hey, maybe you can tell her that you need some time away, that way you will have the NC. Its like as if she would call you all the time. This was she will see you, but wont be able to do anything. And this might give you the chanse to not try to control her.
Hey Clint, I think you should do as suggested from Kevin, eather write her a letter or text something easy, like “i was with my friend, we saw ** movie, i remeber when we saw it, it was a great movie”..or some=) I think she will come back. That is because she needed you all this time, fighted for you while u were cold, if you dont want to loose here, never ever take her for granted. Comunicate with her, me self critical with what you put on the table.
For me, i have been like your girl, but my bf comes with exuses, like we arguing alot, and so on, instead of dealing with the real problem. We were together for 4 years. He now said that he doesnt feel the same for me, and i have been like your girl, taken for granted. i should have done like her, but i thought he would come around. He already dates a girl, just a new random that he bearly know. Sucks..
You will have your girl back, i do think so, but it has to be better from you this time, and i think you will since u understand your falws now=) Good luck!!
