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It’s been 16 days since the original break up. Ive broken NC 3 times now. The first time I broke NC was not to bad. We didn’t talk about the break up or relationship at all. I called her because I wanted to, and Invited her out to Coffee just to talk. It went by okay. Felt a little awkward. Went a few more days and called her telling her I would like to see her, and she said she wasn’t too comfortable with it. And yes I understood, she told me to wait another week. She texted me one night around 10oclock and I didn’t answer, and she called me when I didn’t reply to the texts. The next day I happen to see her walking down the street while I was driving so I stopped and talked to her, we ended up going for a run together, I called her later that night just to talk and catch up, but the conversation shifted to more about our relationship when I asked if she wanted to go mini golfing the next week. I messed up here telling her that I still have feelings for her, that I miss her, and I still love her, I think about her before I fall asleep, and she’s the girl that I want to spend my time with.
I know every time I break NC it’s hurting my chances. But I do speak the truth I still love her. And I know she still had feelings for me. I want to give her, her space so she can realize that on her own.
How many times can I restart NC? Is it okay to restart? I keep feeling so confident about talking to her, I feel that Im ready, but she’s not, and I don’t know how I will tell if she is.
Lost my cool yesterday. I happen to see her walking down the street while I was driving by. Smile and waved. I felt like I was fine, and decided I wanted to stop and talk to her. Asked If she would be able to help me pick up my new mattresses. She invited me in to her house. And we went for a run together. We didn’t talk to much on the run. So later at night I decided to call her and chat her up. That talk was fine at first. I asked if she would be interested in going to play mini golf next week. And he defenses went up and the truth came out. Her exact words where “that seems a little “close”… She said “what if theres a cute girl there and she dosnt come talk to you because Im there.” “I don’t want to take the opportunity from you” Then the conversation went back to our relationship. I still deep down believe she has feelings for me. She’s just a very strong heart feel girl. Doesn’t want to be seen as week for taking me back.
How many times can I restart NC?
Well crap, I did reply via a text this morning saying “I believe your right. It was after.” She replied imedatly just saying “okay cool” so now I have to start all over again?
She texted again saying “well thank you for applying” I did open the first message and she probably saw that I read it. But I didn’t answer the call or open the second two.
