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@MarioArg keep on man! you got it! the advice that ppl give us “there is many other fish in the sea” is the dumbest thing one can say when you are just trying to “find(ing) nemo”.
Also I see it like I got dropped into the wilderness – trying to find my way back home (home is a metaphor for her) … I mean ofc I could find a new place to settle … but home is home .. if that makes sense to you
@Marin I know the feels. I struggle too. I have kept the NC for 17 days now but I am planning to break the NC in a few days cause she is planning on leaving the continent.
What helped me is to open the Facebook chat, type what I want to say and then delete it. Also I have made a tumblr blog to get the words out. I write the things I feel and want to say, I post them. Even though I dont think people read it it feels good to know that someone could read it. I find comfort in the anonymity of the internet.
Also I take long walk to the wood every day, sit down on a deer-stand, stare into the distance and talk to god/pray. It helps me. I dont know why .. it just does.
When it gets extremely hard I go into my bed, put my head into the pillow and scream as loud as I can – helps to get rid of the fear and the anxiety for the moment.
