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Yea I have completely agreed to stay off now. After I deleted it I went off to look at a message my friend sent me, I then saw a picture she posted… she was in a cute black dress, it was like an “old time dress” I think anyways. The caption was “tell me ’bout:it stud”. I looked into the comments and someone commented “SANDY ?” then another person commented “Maddie + Sandy = Mandy! I love it!❤❤”
I don’t know if she’s into someone named sandy or…
She’s playing a character named sandy, that’s why she’s dressed like that, and wrote a weird caption and someone said it = Mandy.
I’m so confused and I’m freaking out! I’m deleting instagram… help me plz…
Okay so… I’m staying home from college today because I’m kinda drunk & tired lol
I thought about my ex-girlfriend a lot yesterday, I was told by my cousin to “move on” lol, she’s right… I’m not currently ready to move on.
If I lose all hope and move on it seems like it’s really over… I mean it’s over now but… anyways you guys know what I mean. One of her best friends is a photographer and he posted one of his pictures of her on instagram, this made me sad. He has a gf and is happy with her but I’m still jealous… he’s got nothing on me looks wise (her words not mine) he just has the ability to make her laugh because they have the same sense of humor. I can make my ex laugh it’s just… not as often & hard you know? Whatever I’ve been learning not to take these things personally and it’s been helping.
For the most part I had fun yesterday, besides the couple of “dips” when I thought of my ex it was good. I spent Halloween watching scary movies and going for walks with my BEAUTIFUL cousin, I call her my cousin but we are just good family friends (I know what you are thinking… no I don’t like her like that, we are like family!) Anyways we went to Tim’s to get hotchocolate late at night, she’s wearing a frog costume, she threw a cute face on aND posed for a picture, I put it on instagram and titled it “Hoppy Halloween” genius! That may get the ex kinda wondering what im doing… maybe lol
Anyways after getting drunk at around 3:00am I was told I should delete apps like Instagram, Facebook and other things because I can’t control myself I will stalk my ex. I deleted them, I will not re-download them until the NCP is over, I may snap a photo and post it then re-delete the app but that’s it 🙂
I don’t know what I’m asking for advice on at this point… I’m looking for more “support” am I making a wise decision? After knowing all this about my relationship do I have a good chance? I don’t know… tell me the truth please lol
Thanks guys, you are very helpful and help me get through the day!
*thinks to self* “it’s only been 3.5 weeks…”
Ugh… memories are flooding back from last halloween. We spent it together and had so much fun, everything is reminding me of her…
She responded to the text I sent with “Mmkay”
(I’m talking about the extra I told you about before, the one saying I can’t talk.)Lol so annoying mmkay whatever, at least she replied 🙂
Oh sorry for posting again lol, in case out are gone after the two weeks how should I reestablish contact? It seems weird to be like “this made me think of you” so? What should I say?
…okay it’s going to be hard, be ready to give me emotional support lol
Wait… if she texts or calls ignore it? Or respond but cut it off?
Ex. “Here’s my new number _____ ____ _____”
Should I say “thanks” then thats it? Or not respond?
Okay… umm what should I text lol.
“Hey Maddie, could we hold out on talking for the next couple weeks? I need to focus on myself, packing, school, driving and some other stuff, thanks!”
I’m really not going to be busy tho… when I want a task done it’s done well and quickly, and also I see where you are coming from with the “she may be busy thing”.
I do however know her and… she’s on reading week, she is almost always on Instagram since we broke up, her family doesn’t call her often, she’s never sick and when she is she’s on her phone on Netflix, Instagram, youtube etc. Plus through the two years we were dating she would respond to my texts within an hour almost always, if she didn’t she would call later that day.
I’m not really going crazy, I just like posting on this forum because you guys are helpful, and help me feel better. Why not get tips on this stuff right?
I’ve been having a blast in my room singing lol and I’m going out with a friend tomorrow.
And I never said I was going to reply to her comment lol, I said I would not reply! 🙂
No contact for a month… your sure? She’s replying to my texts and answering my calls, if I start no contact won’t I need to start all this over again?
Oh and if I start NCR again what do I do if she texts or calls me?
I know I shouldn’t text lol, I didn’t text her today…
Here’s what happened, when I texted her about the furry thing saying
“wtf…my cousin evhan invited me to a furry party.”
She looked at it an hour later but never replied.
I ignored it and didn’t respond. Then today at 10:45pm she replied. I kinda over analyzed it lol… here’s what I came up with.
She wakes up relatively early on Mondays, because of this she is usually sleeping anywhere from 9:30 – 12:00, she already looked at the message before, this means the notification is gone… there is no point in looking at the conversation. However she decided to go back onto Instagram, look through her messages, find my name, then reply to me… I think she may have been thinking about me because we usually talk around 10:00 – 11:00. Plus what I said wasn’t a question… it didn’t require a response, she responded anyway.
When I got the notification I never clicked on the message, I waited an hour to make it not seem like I care that much to look at it. I clicked the message and didn’t respond, this way she’ll wonder if I went and she may ask me, I’m not replying to that message don’t worry 🙂
My plan was to wait till next week to reply, maybe around Saturday, I could wait longer if you think that’s best… it’ll be hard tho. It’s just, why would she reply? She saw it didn’t respond, then thought of me so replied at 10:45…
