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Dang, hey a mutual friend between me and her just messages me which isn’t uncommon however she usually tells Maddie what I say. I had a friendly conversation with her, I made it sound like I have pretty much moved on, when she brought up the relationship I diverted or said let’s change the subject lol. I didn’t bash my ex either I made it sound like I have lots of respect for her it just didn’t work out. I also said how I have been improving, none of what I just stated were this obvious when I was talking to her obviously. I replied very well lol I’m proud of myself;)
No it’s not lol I have that thought all the time. People say they won’t move on that quickly but we always think out partner is the exception.
It’s still hard for me to not focus on my ex, when I’m going about life it’s the same as it was when my ex was in it, because of this I forget we even broke up. When I remember I get sad again, I think of all the things we never had the chance to do… anyways as said before countless times, focus on yourself, treat the situation as hopeless it’ll make it easier to move on plus make you work harder to improve yourself.
About the eating thing, I have the opposite problem I don’t eat anything when I’m sad 🙁 I needed to actually force myself to ear more at times.
Well I think that since me and my gf had a happy relationship for two years she won’t fall in love with someone after 1 – 2 months.
I also know that if she happens to fall in love it’s probably a rebound and if it’s not, I know that there is literally nothing I could have done so it’s not on me 🙂
You were out all day? Hope you were having fun lol. Doing boring stuff or doing things to get your mind off?
I woke up anow hour ago, I’m feeling kinda sad but nothing overwhelming. You know those moments when you don’t know what to say but you wanna say something? That’s me…
I just can’t deal with having her outo of my inner circle ugh… I want to talk to her not necause I date her. I just want to know what’s happening. These are questions I can’t ask or won’t ask but want answered:
– Why the hair cut, trying something new?
– I saw a post on instagram of you, did you actually do the whole play as Sandy?(FromGrease)
– LOVE ME!!(More of a statement)
I have more but saying them is kinda pointless…
Anyways this was my little vent, I feel like I need to do at least one of these a day! ?
It’s 7:26pm just got home from school, feeling positive! My brain is still thinking of her but im not sad, I’m pretty sure if I go back to my positive not needy self I can get her back. If she doesn’t want me after that then… I guess it wasn’t meant to be lol
I feel the same way sometimes, I can look back on texts I sent her and while she’s not being insulting she is very cold, she responds in 2-3 word sentences.
Sometimes I feel like this is all a waste of time, we’re both 18, if I get her back will it be forever or just another 1-2years. These are all questions I can’t have answered, after seeing how cold she was when I brought up the relationship in our Skype call it made me feel terrible. On top of that, I know her hair doesn’t affect anything but it seems like she’s changing, she’s acting happy, talking to her friends and not contacting me lol. I am happy that she is enjoying life however, it’s hard to know she is doing it without me, I understand she could be missing me when she’s alone in her room at 10:00pm but who knows right…
What I’m trying to say is we all have doubts, if you truly love him and feel the good times outweigh the bad I recommend continuing trying to get back together, it’s hard to figure out belive me I know… just stay strong and continue no contact, remember nothing has changed since when he first sent those messages, you saw them and it made you sad, then later you were doing better you moved on from the messages and we’re happy. Now you saw the messages and you are sad again, go back to that happy place! Focus on yourself you deserve it, from the way you respond and how say things I can say with almost 100% certainty that you aren’t a complete ass 🙂
Talk to you later, stay positive!
Christ you are knowledgeable, thank you so much you hit the nail on the head with that lol
I’m watching Jet Li fighting scenes lol, it’s getting my mind off everything.
Thanks again, the more we talk the more I want your relationship to work out. You seem like such a kind person, I’m very glad that you related to my story and decided to post 🙂
Keep me up to date on your relationship please!
Oh and that first paragraph was not meant to be a sob story, it was just me explaining why I cant meditate lol
I have had a lot of bad things happen in my life, I got diagnosed with cancer when I was born (beat it), my dad left and is currently an alcoholic who I barley talk to, I have also had other people who I called “dad” leave over the years. I tried meditation, it didn’t help because I am unable to let go of these problems, it often just leavs me alone to think deeply about these things.
My ex-girlfriend was one thing that made most of my problems, fears and doubts go away. For two years we cared for each other (I still care for her obviously 🙂 ) She broke up with me so suddenly, she said she’d been thinking for a couple months but she kept quiet, even through those months she acted happy…
Anyways I tend to obsess when I am left alone for a long period of time, right now I’m alone. My best friend moved too far from me to get there without planning, school is tethering me to my house, I can’t play video games with friends because my headset broke… I don’t even want to play.
I am uncapable of keeping myself busy this week, the only thing I can do is schoolwork which is more painful then silence sometimes lol.
I was doing so good last week, I had lots to do, I was busy. This week I’m not and there is nothing I can do about it, so I’m left alone to think… it’s hard not to obsess when all you can do is work, listen to music and browse online. This week I have just been sleeping an extra 3 – 6 hours when I’m not busy with school, I do this to avoid the boredom…
Sorry for the rant, it’s all I can do right now lol
That’s nearly impossible 🙂 If I was at that point I wouldn’t see the point in trying to be with her at all lol.
No I have a class today at 4:00-6:00pm so I need to get ready and leave at 3:00pm because of this I need to sit at home lol.
Meditation won’t work, it’ll just give me a quite and relaxing time to think about her 🙂
What I need is for Trump to step down, Maddie love me, school to be easier and to have my license…
Good to hear he approached it so well.
I’m not doing very good lol, today’s one of those days. Music isn’t helping, I’m tired and I have no motivation. She seems to be changing so much and there’s nothing I can do about it. She seems so happy without me and it’s very discouraging, everyone thinks this way after a breakup “how can she be so happy?” I’m just scared I want to be with her so much, I just don’t want her to be cold or act like a different person when I contact her in a week.
Help.
