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Songs I like when I’m sad.
– Over the Rainbow
– Mama said
– Love on me
– No moneyThere are more but… takes long to link stuff lol!
Ugh… I can’t get over that picture her fking friend posted! She looks so beautiful, I hate him. She always has this seductive “I wanna fck you” face on… They are friends and he’s in a happy relationship with another girl, he takes pictures of like 5 other people but… still, it sucks!
This may be personal lol but she’s likes to be submissive, we never really did anything crazy in bed mostly just the me on top going slowly because… well it hurt her and we are shy. What I’m saying is if we get back together and she wants to do the do… I won’t be shy. ??
Lol thanks, I’ll still keep you up to date after I text her. If by some miracle we end up back together I’ll still be talking to you in here, giving advice, saying how I feel etc…
I like you so I want your relationship to work out as much as I want mine to. 🙂
I’m doing the same thing 🙂
It is however a bad idea to bring up problems you had, I find it kinda risky to even bring up good memories because even tho they are good… that relationship didn’t work, because of this it is both of your jobs (if you get back together) to make new memories that you both cherish.
If you get back together and date for awhile you could I suppose tell him you wrote a journal about your feelings throuout the breakup. Then you could both look at the extremely filtered version of your feelings lol, you could statell things that he did that hurt you, don’t state many tho. Then you could talk about lots of good things, how you remembered certain memories while broken up which made you feel better.
I have 3 days! I’m so nervous, so many things can go wrong and so many things can go right. I have a good strategy, my feelings are pure, I love her, at this point it’s all up to her feelings…
Ugh… I was doing fine and all of a sudden I thought of her. It’s not memories I haven’t thought of but this time it’s like I got kicked in the stomach.
I feel like I’m in between forgetting and remembering, I just feel numb. Everything is numb besides the pain in my stomach.
You could try it 🙂
I’m glad you have calmed down, I also get a sick feeling when I think of Maddie dating another person… especially when I think of her doing the… you know. Since I was her first and she was mine I hate the thought of her doing it with someone else.
Don’t write him back… it’s okay calm down, my ex has lots of friends in her course. Like I said before it’s a tight nit community, they text and talk often, also it’s a drama course and people who like drama are usually good looking (I like drama 😉 ) Anyways that makes me worry sometimes that she found someone new, she literally has all of them on Facebook and instagram and probably snapchat, her snap score (it goes up when you send or receive a snap) well her score goes up everyday by like 30 – 40 points… that means she’s sending and receiving lots of snaps, it a bothers me but I don’t let it get the best of me. It’s normal for this to happen, and if they do start seeing each other it may just be a rebound, just keep calm and don’t write him please.
I should wait till Tuesday right?
Take this time to really focus on myself, stay off social media get work done and maybe go out with a friend?
Or should I text her tomorrow on the weekend when we are probably not very busy? Ugh… I already know the answer lol.
Wait…
It’s already been 2 weeks but yeah probably Tuesday.
I like the enthusiasm you added into it, I think I’ll say:
“Well, things have finally slowed, I’m caught up. Hey, I noticed you got a hair cut! I’d like to hear what you think about it.”
Saying “I’d like to hear what you think sometime” seems kinda… like I’m hitting on her lol just seems weird.
So something like:
“Well, things have finally slowed, I’m caught up. Hey, I noticed you got a hair cut, I’d like to hear what you think about it.”I’ve been okay, sad and happy lol, her photographer friend posted another photo that she looked amazing in so… that made me sad. She has long hair in the photo so I know it’s older lol, at least they aren’t hanging out 24/7
Glad you are happy for the most part, just keep doing what you are doing. He liked your post so he may be thinking about you lots 🙂
Ugh… my girlfriend has the worst sense of humor for breakups, makes me so anxious lol.
Her instagram bio is “sin sin sin sin sin sin” she had the same sense of humor when we were dating but come on… lol she just makes my mind wander, I read sin, sin, sin and I’m like… what is she doing, how is she sinning? Is she sleeping with randoms!
I know she’s not… well actually I don’t but I’m not really worried about that, I don’t think she would do that lol but who knows she’s changed a lot this month (from my perspective).
Things that changed:
– Contact with me… obviously less to none at all, also cold when relationship talk comes up.
– Her sense of humor.
– She cut 80% of her hair off.
– She posts more often on social media (instagram, snapchat) seems like she posts like 30 – 40% more, could just be me lolJust need to wait until Tuesday, then my mind will be at ease or disappointed, but I’ll have an answer.
If I contact her I’m obviously not going to send like 10 texts saying date me please! But if I send a text like “Hey I’m still using your netflix hope that’s okay lol, anyways I found this show that I think you would love!” See… doesn’t require a response, if she wants to talk to me and says “really, what show?” That’s a good sign but if she responds with “Oh… can you sign out of my netflix please.” OR doesn’t respond that’s obviously not good lol.
She got her hair cut so I can start contact with:
“We’ll things have slowed down, finally caught up with everything. Hey I saw you got a haircut, how you liking short hair?”.Here I’m not saying my opinion this makes her wonder what I think, I however don’t like how I am asking a question, I can’t seem to find any other way to word it without stating my opinion on the hair or sounding rude/dumb. Besides that it says how I am more open now, also brings up a new and exciting topic for her.
What do you think about both those texts?
Any advice for anything I wrote or… pweze gimme some constructive criticism 🙂On another note how are you doing Anni
PS. Didn’t realise I wrote so much… Sorry 🙂
