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Nope lol, she hasent seen it yet… I posted a picture on snapchat 2h ago that she saw. I sent the text like 3h ago lol
So she either hasent clicked on it because she doesn’t know what to say or doesn’t want to be in a conversation. Or she doesn’t know she got it.
Yup at 6:00pm so not till way later.
I’m just nervous about what she’s going to say lol.
I don’t really know what else to write at this point I’m just nervous, I hate how I’m the one reaching out… it makes me feel like she doesn’t care lol. Do you think she cares? If so why isn’t she reaching out…
Sounds like he just put up his defenses… don’t bring up the relationship if he contacts you Please!
You still have a chance… kinda.
I’m so sorry… this is what I’m afraid of in my relationship. I do hope he realises his mistake and texts you. He battles with depression, he’s probably scared and confused. It’s not uncommon to snap like this, I do however recommend you look for someone else. I’m sorry to say that because if I heard that I would lirterally want to die, just remember that you deserve love and to be happy!
Hell with how nice and supportive you are I’d date you 🙂
Anyways, I’m so scared after sending the text, I keep looking to see if she’s read it… she hasent yet lol. I think she’s awake because she liked a couple photos earlier of random people. Her friend also liked them so she may be chillin with her.
Btw dont think I’m like stalking her and her friends lol, I posted a picture earlier and was looking at my notifications, I saw that her and her friend liked the photos while I was looking at people who liked my photos 🙂
Anyways any more advice for me? I recommend you clean, meditate, do laundry, etc… get your mind off it.
I think that sounds good, if you send it and he replies don’t respond.
I have my message how’s this?
“We’ll things have slowed down, caught up with everything for the most part. Hey I saw you got a haircut, I’d like to hear how you’re liking the teeny tiny hairs look lol.”
I said “teeny tiny hairs” because in the picture she posted that I’m referring to that was the caption.
What you think? I’m writing it today so I need your opinion/advice asap lol. Hewp me pwez!
You already know the answer 🙂
There is a good chance he’s not going to move on if you guys had a meaningful relationship but with that being said everyone is different. He may move on or he may not, he may find it offensive he may not. If it was me I would expect a reply back but I wouldn’t be very offended if I didn’t get one, you said you guys need space. He should know you won’t respond, just keep calm, I hope you feel better soon!
Text if you want to talk about the relationship or if you’re just bored 🙂
After not talking for two weeks and before that not talking for a month, I think I should probably call before asking to meet up 🙂
You said “because you are a good guy and you dont deserve happiness” ? lol
I know it’s a matter if wanting to go on, I don’t feel this way currently but 2 – 3 weeks after we broke up I thought about my future without her. Well… I didn’t want one, I would have suicidal thoughts all the time, I didn’t and still don’t want to die obviously but it was like one part of my brain didn’t care about living where the other did.
I don’t think she’ll be rude or cold, I think she’ll keep sentences short. She never writes huge sentences when texting… ever. Even when she had a huge crush on me she didn’t they were longer but never like 4 sentences or a paragraph. Also whenever I looked at her messages in her phone (I know it’s weird… but every couple does it from time to time) or when she would be texting her friends it’s always 3 – 15 words. What I’m trying to say is that she isn’t a long texter lol.
So instead of looking for short texts I’ll look for passive aggressive, rude, cold or other signs that indicate she doesn’t want to text.
Any other tips?
If texting works out how do I bring up calling?
Her brother just posted a picture of her from last summer, they look so happy and she looks beautiful. I saw it and just started bawling… people say guys shouldn’t be sensitive… fuck that.
I miss her so much, I just want to be able to hold her and tell her I love her. She could be cold, distant, insulting, she could say “I don’t love you” 1000 times and still… I would do anything for her, even tho she’s tho sole purpose why I’m sad I still want her to be happy.
I just wish she would call me and say that she made a mistake. I am so scared to contact her, what if she doesn’t even reply… I wish she knew how I felt right now. The mix of emotions, the amount of love and anger I feel towards her.
Even if the plan fails and we don’t get back together, I don’t think I’ll have the strength to just cut her out of my life…
I am so fucking sad right now. I feel like I’m in a nightmare that I can’t wake up from…
Remember when I told you about my childhood? The cancer, alcoholic father, multiple people leaving? Well… I would do that all again if that meant we could have a happy life together.
This may come across as super needy and weird… I don’t really care tho, I still love her and no matter how much I try the whole won’t close. When the pain feels like it’s gone, one memory is all it takes to bring me back to the moment she said “I love you” and “I’m not in love with you”
I’m confused and scared…
Oooo I don’t know that’s tough… honestly I have no idea. If it was Maddie I would wait until Wednesday to text her back. Actually mayb I would just not text, he sounds sorry but I don’t know.
If you decide to text him done be rude, don’t blame him or yourself, don’t be needy and don’t talk about the relationship unless he brings it up. Even then keep it short and change the subject discretely.
Lol thanks! I currently feel speed down tho 🙁 The closer I get to the contact date the more afraid I am.
Sorry I’m not posting, I stayed up all night so I’m sleeping lol.
Just don’t get anxious and text him something you will regret. Remember if he wants to move on and is seeing another person he’ll do it wheather or not you contact him.
Sorry I’m not of more help, I am very tired and I feel sick. Really try to lighten up, I don’t want you to feel bad 🙂
