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Since she doesn’t reply emediatly if she takes like an hour to reply saying:
“Oh really what show?”
I could just say:
“Sorry, I’m out with some friends, I can text you about it after I get home if you’d like.”
I like this because I say sorry so it’s not like I’m being rude or trying to make her jealous, also I say if you’d like at the end, which causes her to think about if she wants to text later. I also didn’t ask a question but she can respond if she wants to further the conversation, I’m not being clingy or needy just stating if she wants to know later I’m available to tell her.
I think it’s brilliant lol 🙂
PS. I’ll stop saying lol
Lolololololol
Okay I’ll send a text like the one you said. We haven’t watched the show I’m talking about, I don’t think she’s ever seen it.
I don’t know about the last part… if I say I’m having out with a friend she’ll probably think I’m saying it to make her jealous.
It’s so hard not to message her… I know she’s just sitting in her room watching netflix or on her phone, it’s all she does.
But I cant message her… I known she would answer and if I asked to talk I know she would say yes. She would even say yes if I wanted to meet up on the weekend… but I can’t look needy or desperate, plus we need time, mostly her, she needs time to think about me and miss me lol
Its just like you said, you sent that email to your ex for comfort and to get stuff off your chest. I wanna talk to her for the same reason but I can’t because I’m doing well so far (I think)
Ugh… I just love her so much and I wanna be with her, she makes me happy.
Atm she’s making me pretty sad and angry lol!
We didn’t really talk about it no, I asked once about 5 months ago if she saw a future with me. She said yes and I asked what was in the future, she wanted 2 – 3 kids and a medium size house, she wanTed us to be happy.
She didn’t want to get married tho… she hates the idea of anyone getting married, she thinks it’s just a piece of paper that costs lots of money. She said if we were to get married it would need to be when we were in our 40s lol
Most people my age don’t like the idea of getting good married… it’s just a phase they go through. Buy yeah long story short she did see a future with me.
Hey since she told me she was stressed last time we texted should I say something like this next week.
“Hey, hope you aren’t still overwhelmed. I found a show that I love, I think you’d really like it, maybe it’ll give you a break lol.”
Should I say that? Again it’s not asking a question and doesn’t require a response. I feel kinda bad she’s overwhelmed, I shouldn’t cuz she could have lied lol.
What do you think?
I think it’s nice, to the point, she doesn’t need to answer and it also leaves her wondering what show I’m talking about.
Me saying I’ll die was a joke 🙂
Yea I agree thanks! I just want her back… I can tell myself that it’s her loss but that doesn’t make it hurt any less. I can focus on improving myself but still that doesn’t make it hurt any less. I want to feel better but I want to feel better by being with her, because I’m more happy when she’s around.
She is young and probably doesn’t want to settle down. I’m also young buy I want to have a happy relationship and settle down in 6-7 years, I’m different than most 18yr olds.
I know you’re right.
But what if she doesn’t come running back or contact me… arrrrggggg… I’ll die.
But I know me contacting her won’t make a difference it’ll probably make things worse actually.
It’s weird because our brains force us to think:”if I just call her and explain, everything will be okay.” It’s literally the exact opposite… so annoying.
I can’t stop wanting to write her! I want to talk to her so bad…
I understand not talking is good because she’s probably thinking about me, I posted 2 snapchats on my story after the text and she looked at them both, she was the first one to look at the second snap… that could have just been timing tho. She’s always looked at them, sometimes she missed one but not often.
I just can’t stop thinking, “what if she’s not thinking about me?” It’s so hard to take that in. I want to be in a happy relationship with her so much…
I don’t want some dick to come along and like… use her for sex, she probably wouldn’t say yes but still it worries me.
Yes I think 24days should be enough, that seems like it will give you guys the necessary space.
I think she wants to talk, she is probably doing work. She procrastinates all the time, Tuesdays are her days off, maybe she wanted to catch up on all her work on her day off. She seems like she wants to talk because she said “she can’t talk RIGHT NOW” which implies that she will talk later so…
I dunno maybe.
Lol thanks!
Didn’t your ex reach out to you a couple times tho? Mine hasent once since the breakup. That leads me to belive she won’t make the first move.
The only reason I don’t want to wait another two weeks is because I told her I didn’t want to talk for two weeks, nw of I do it again it seems kinda weird.
She told me she likes the hair and that she was overwhelmed, I acted not clingy and said that I hope everything’s fine and I like the hair then that was it.
It was a short but nice, she wasn’t rude or cold in any way and that’s what I was looking for 🙂 so I’ll wait 5 – 6 days.
Yea I agree 100% I’ll wait till Sunday probably, I don’t want to wait till Tuesday again because I don’t want a pattern to form.
Good advice thanks 🙂
She replied, she said how much she loves me and wants me back.
No I’m kidding… I wish, anyways after I wrote the message she waited 5 hours to look and reply to it.
She wrote: “I really like the haircut but I’m really overwhelmed right now so I can’t talk.”
I went to go help my mom and replied about 3min later with: “No problem, I hope everything’s okay lol. I can’t really give a proper opinion cuz I’ve only seen one picture but I think it suits you well.”
Then that was it, she looked at the message in like 10 seconds then… done.
So… did I handle the situation well? I didn’t ask her what her problems were because I didn’t want to get personal, I just basically said I hope everything works out. I’m worried because she’s overwhelmed but ehh.. whatever. You think her response was okay?
