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I understand, I don’t think including a link would be helpful, wouldn’t that make it seem like I’m telling her she’s confused? Some may not like that, she also replied to my text relatively late, 10:45, she also did this after she already read the message… so she was thinking about it went back through her messages and replied. Im just terrified that if I cut off all communication she will move on.
Should I send her a link on the stages of a romantic relationship? Or could that make her think I’m needy and really want to get back together?
I’ll wait till next week to text something else, I’ll let her wonder if I went or not.
Do I ignore it? I didn’t click it so it doesn’t say “seen” should I wait till next week to respond? Or tomorrow? O should I keep it light and cut it off asap
I’m being crazy… I need to calm down… *breath*
WHAT SHE JUST REPLIED TO THAT MESSAGE! THE FURRY ONE SAYING “that’s always fun” WHAT DO I DO….
She saw it yesterday and didn’t reply… why now!
Another thing is, in the last call we weren’t like “oh yeah well talk more” it’s kinda like if I text she’ll probably awn service and then I’ll ask to talk and she’ll say yes… it’s me doing most of the work. Again when we were in the call it was more “friendly” then anything else, when I would bring up the relationship she wasn’t phased at all, she would just kinda cut it off. For example “I could have backed off anduring given you space if you wanted, we could have went out on the weekend when you were stressed, you just needed to talk to me.” She said “I don’t think we should talk about hypothetical situations” another one is when I asked why “What is the reason we broke up”, she said “I already told you” then I said “not really, you just said you weren’t in love with me” she said “okay here’s the reason, I don’t love you anymore!” I was like okay but there’s a reason for that lol, then we got onto the topic of me being needy and we agreed that that was the reason.
It was a nice and “friendly” conversation she was just kinda heartless and ended it fast whenever I brought up the relationship
True I’m torn between no contact, or very slow communication… Patricia what do I do!! Lol 🙂
Btw, should I just send a text next week saying I’ll be focusing on other things? I don’t think I should call… what do you think?
I have cars I can drive, Im moving like 10m away from my current house at the end of next month, I could slow down communication and say I need to focus on packing, college, myself etc… we are both procrastinators so we both are usually scrambling to get things done at school. Last call we said we would talk so I don’t know about no contact for a month I can try it tho
Oh! She’s also getting a new phone on Tuesday so I’ll need her new number… how do I do that? In the call I said I’ll need your number and she apply agreed, but what if she forgets or something? Just message her on instagram like usual?
I agree, it’s hard because we both put off getting our license, so we couldent go do stuff thato often and it kinda made it less personal when our parents were driving us everywhere. I get mine on the 22nd of next month, in the call she told me she failed her driving test lol!
Anyways, with the new found information what do you recommend? Should I do NCR for a month? Maybe hold off until I get my license? Or should I be worried about doing it because I already ignored her for 21days?
Can you give me a plan I can start please, I’m so confused… I’m only 18 lol
Oh just saying… I’m a really good singer, I just don’t do it in front of people lol but when they hear me by secretly listening they are like… damn!
She broke up with me on October 7th… so not that long ago lol.
I’m just scared that since we only saw each other once a week, sometimes once every two weeks, she won’t care that I’m gone…however during that time we would have like 1h – 3h calls on Skype.
So… should I be worried she’ll move on? We had a very intimate relationship, towards the end we fell into a routine of basically going to each other’s houses once a week, doing sexual things, watching shows, and maybe going out for ice cream. She said she was fine with all that and that’s not the problem…
I also made a journal loft what I’m going through, I wrote down things I love about her, things I don’t like, how I feel etc… it helps me move on 🙂
I do understand what you are saying, thanks for the advice. I did tell her no happy bday upset me… oops, I won’t let that bother me tho. I will take it slow and focus more on myself. I just cleaned my room and did all the laundry. I am also singing more, I like doing it but am uncomfortable doing it in front of to others lol
