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I’m way better, it’s a sad story… but it’s the same thing everyone goes through. I still creep a photo from time to time and think about the good times but… I now understand that we’re both so young, 18 years old… It was pretty stupid for me to have hopes of being with her for the rest of our lives, I would have been happy taking care of her and treating her wonderfully but… That’s not the same thoughts she was having I guess it wasn’t meant to be.
You’re new here so… All I can say is that if you think you had something special try to hold on. With that being said, think… Are they worth it? Did they really put as much effort into the relationship as you? Did they make you feel amazing? Not just good… I mean, did they give you that warm feeling inside. You need to know when you need to let go.
I don’t know what happened to you but if it’s anything like what happened to me, you need to stay strong, I was right in my last post… Time heals all wounds, I’m still hurt and I still want her to come back and say sorry but… I don’t think I would take her back, she’s not the type of person I wanna be with, at least not in her current state… She’s entitled and thinks she’s as good as it gets when honestly, she’s not.
I’m texting another girl right now, she makes me feel amazing, I haven’t even met her in person, she talks to my friends and I’ve had her added on Facebook forever because she goes to my old school but… I never reached out.
Anyways, we like the same things, she is nice from what I’ve heard and read (from friends and just general discussion). Bottom line is, there are more people out their, better people.
*i typed this quick lol because I’m talking to friends and oddly enough texting that girl!*
I do hope everything works out, more than anything I hope you stay strong and have the courage to move on if it’s time. (probably not what you wanna hear… But trust me)
Well I hope I have the strength to spit back because I’m still in love and still destroyed by this, having suicidal thoughts all the time but… I’ll get through it.
Just remember guys you aren’t alone in this, you may feel like you are different from anyone and your partner is different.. It’s just simply not true, they are all the same, genaric as fuck. They thing the grass is greener on the other side, it’s not… You’re all better then them and just know that time heals all wounds, the road will be hard and it’ll destroy you but that’s when it’s time to pick yourself up because you are stronger then them.
Hey, sad to say it didn’t work out, she’s changed to a cold bitch… I wanted closure and she spat in my face and blocked me on everything.
Time to begin the not so long road to recovery, I hope all of your relationships work out.
Who know in 2 – 5 years she’ll look back and realize she made a mistake, she’ll reach out to me and I’ll spit back.
Less contact when you aren’t together please… Just focus on fun when you are together, it’s so important to not let her walk all over you, don’t be needy.
You can still text and call but wait for her to do it first sometimes.
If you continue to be super needy and letting her walk all over you the relationship will end. Be confident in yourself and treat her well but don’t be a doormat.
Okay I’m glad you are so confident, you are strong and don’t give up, like me 🙂
I however don’t want you do destroy your life to get her back, that is totally the wrong way to think lol, do everything you can to get her back yes but don’t let her walk all over you please. she will see that as you being needy and weak.
It’s like this, if I was broken up with and then tried to commit suicide would that make the situation better, would that show how much I love her? No, It would make me seem unstable and like I need help, she may stay with me for another month because she’s scared but that would only make her resent you.
Don’t be a Doormat! If she is taking you for granted and you genuinely feel that she is, tell her to stop or it won’t work out, don’t seem needy!
Non of this is meant to be rude 🙂 I used caps to mark important parts. Good luck and if you got questions as away.
– John Crane
Hello Sdelgado94,
*I know other people have already replied to you but here’s what I think.*
I have two questions for you, how long were you dating? and why did you break up? If you can answer the second one then that’s good. You need to know why you broke up in the first place, the real reason, if you don’t know dont badger or nag at her, find a way to bring it up in conversation. If you already know then that’s great, focus on fixing what was wrong with the relationship.
Okay you said you were giving it your all and she wasn’t, I would like to say that you deserve the same amount of affection you give her, i’m actually kinda jealous, your odds are looking better than they are in my Ex-relationship lol. What I am going to say tho, if you know the problem I want you to do this, you said you were trying as hard as you can… do you love her? If you answered yes then… try harder. I don’t want you to overwhelm her and I don’t want you to sacrifice all your hopes, dreams, goals etc for her, but you do need to try harder! If she is distant when you guys are apart figure out why… also have less time apart, fight for her, even if she seems like she wouldn’t fight for you.
I really do hope it works out because my relationship isn’t, I’ve been broken up with for the past month and a half, I did NCR and am starting to text her every week, I have exciting news every week and she’s acting neutral, there’s no affection at all… she just basically answers all my questions and gives her input/ opinions, she doesn’t really bring up new topics. It hurts me every day, I feel like i’m drowning slowly, I’m not trying to throw a sob story at you but… I am 18, I survived cancer, my dad left, and other father figures left, I move to a new house every year… but you know what, the pain I feel from the breakup doesn’t compare to anything I have been through, and I would do it all again if it meant I could settle down with her and be happy… My point is that even when my odds are a thousand to one, i’ll try and I wont stop trying so neither should you!
Good luck,
John C.
Actually better not use Instagram, what is your skype? I think that would be better for texting
After I add you edit the post you made so your name isn’t floating around on this site lol
My mom’s family does 🙂
Fuck… That new jk Rowling movie is out in the movies, she loves the Harry Potter books… I wanted to see it with her if we were comfortable in like a month but now… I can’t.
Any advice?
I’ll tell you my Instagram when you are online lol
I really want to be able to talk to you lol You seem like a good person to vent to…
That would be a super weird story one day…
“Yeah I went on this how to get your ex back forum, there I met a really nice woman in her 20s we ended up venting to each other on skype.”
Hey I’m half Romanian btw just a pointless fact lol
Lol good ☺ I think that’ll make a good story, what do you think?
Something to carry on the conversation if she still wants to talk next week.
Lol no! In the “hood” of a car, the tire was pushed into the front of the car lol don’t worry nobody was hurt 😉
