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Solid advice. I’ll do just that. Yeah it would take a long time to build back trust and many other things. I’d probably have to move on first and start back at almost square one. Trying to keep in mind that whatever is meant to be will be and hoping that doing what’s best for me will bring about good things in life. It hurts already to see she is “moving on” and making it look so easy, but I know that she wants me to see it and be hurt and that it is most likely all a front. Thanks for your advice, it is very helpful
Yes Phill, this is bound to happen. I’m torn about how to respond if/ when it does, though. Say she contacts me in a month or two with the realization that she is wrong and apologizes, is it wrong for us to move forward? When she was breaking up with me she said she wanted to be friends because she didn’t want to lose me in her life and I told her I couldn’t, but thinking about it I would be willing to try in time. I’m just not sure where to draw the line because I do love her and miss her terribly, but at the same time she REALLY tore me apart. Tricky stuff.
Phill, thanks for the clarification. You’re right, she is being childish. I guess I was confused mostly because she is the one who wanted to break up and she is acting as if she is the dumpee. I am not concerned about her dating some guy out of jealous but I am concerned because she is not doing healthy things for herself and she is going to end up getting hurt and then she will come to me. I gave up a lot for her and was so good to her and knew every side of her. Our relationship was not something you can find twice, and I believe she will realize this if she continues to date. Only time will tell, but I will stay uninvolved.
