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Agreed! You should do everything you may said! You’re on the right path to success!
I back up @Oshi comment 150%! Just play it cool!
@between1standa Because people are too ignorant and don’t realize that all relationships and people are different. Seriously it is like freaking rocket science to people.
I meant mention the eggs thing! I think you should go a long with things for now and come in a little closet at points!
I completely understand! When you guys have your alone time together, be a little flirtatious and see where that takes you!
You could mention that to him too! About the whole eggs thing! He seems fine with doing so!@UrbanOasis I’m sorry your ex did this to you :/ you do deserve to be treated better than that, but I can tell she still has feelings. Proven fact, girls do not want to be “just friends” after having a relationship together. They are too emotionally involved. So, if they say something like that, chances are, they have more on their agenda than being “just friends”. Remember that!
You’re exactly right! When my ex and I are together, he certainly doesn’t deny those feelings, but then he can ignore me, not make plans When I suggest them, only see me 4 hours a week, and I’m just like “what?” Lol!! It’s ridiculous! I care a lot about him, don’t get me wrong, but I don’t have time to be miserable. I understand that he loves me and I understand that we are and he’s confused, but then why are you not confused about spending the rest of your life with me? We can be dating and still have freedom, you know? We practically were dating! Like that’s what I hate about all of this. It all comes down to “let’s play mind games with our exes and then still do our own thing”, I feel like that’s how they think! It’s ridiculous!
Maybe you the next time you see him, tell him that you’re sorry and that was very inappropriate (not that it was, but for your actions of being quiet and stuff you could say it like that instead of going into detail). I feel like a lot of things that your friend said was about how she read his body language and how he talked, so I can’t make a good judgement call on that. However, the fact that he let you come over is a sign. He would’ve avoided the situation if he wasn’t in some form invested into wanting you to come into. The way he’s dressed, if he knows you like it that way, then I feel he is interested because he wouldn’t just dress like that for nothing. It was for you. I think he fell asleep. I don’t see him ignoring you whatsoever. Also, the fact that he did work 4 doubles and was exhausted but still stayed up for you to come over is a good sign. I do think there are still a lot of feelings involved. But I don’t know when he will decide to act on them. I kind of feel like he wants you to act on them, but I don’t want to be wrong and suggest you to do so! So don’t do anything yet!
Exactly! If you just need time and the decide you don’t want to be together, that’s fine! But you know what my ex told me a week after we broke up? That he didn’t plan on being broken up forever, just a couple months, he didn’t even want to be broken up for a year. He also constantly pushed to be friends and was always like “well I want to be friends for now and you don’t want that”. Everytime we would get close again he’d explain to me how he would want a future with me because I’m different. Those were not cushions for my blow (he isn’t kind enough to do that, he is a harsh person). He meant all of that. So why break up? Why stay broken up? Why play games?
The only thing I can think of is the fact that I stuck around and he knew he had me so he got the best of both worlds. He had his cake and he got to eat it too. So whenever he was ready, he could just ask for me back and he knows I would come back. I think that’s the reason why he has held out. You know?
I wish things were easier! You know? I mean there should never be this much drama between two people with feelings for each other. There should never be games. Just direct problem solving. If one person is confused and doesn’t know what they want, they shouldn’t just drag the other person a long. I don’t know why people do this kind of stuff. -__-
Maybe! I wouldn’t avoid her though! Just act like it’s not a big deal and you aren’t worried to be in her presence!! You got this!
Basically..yeah… I mean you told her that you would like to do something with her and she mentioned coffee when she gets the time. So now it is in her control and her hands..even if that means you don’t get to see her before she goes.. that is her problem. Your chances won’t get hurt because she needs to be making up for things..not you.
His family can be a very selfish family. They don’t worry too much about things, but his twin was very pissed off after that happened and he found out. But again, like I said, that was 7 months ago.. everyone kind of moved on from all of that except me and my ex. No one knows what’s going on between us because of being back and forth so I don’t think anyone says anything.
