[Dondi]

I know exactly what you mean. I was dumped last Friday after 14 years because she wanted time for herself and although we had planned on getting married, some financial trouble on my end currently prevents that. She has been talking to a guy out of state she knew when she was little but hasn’t seen in 30+ years, and wants to see where that goes. I think the two are the same in that 1) they have always been in a relationship and have never really been single and 2) they have been with us a long time but never saw the relationship moving forward very fast.
I think that they need time to see that life without is isn’t going to be all they thought it will be, plus we need time to get are lives together physically, emotionally and financially. If they really loved us, and I believe they did, when we get our act together they will want back in.
If I were you, I would let her know you will be in town around her birthday and you don’t want her be surprised if she sees you around. Don’t ask to see her. If she wants to see you (and she most likely will) she will somehow let you know after you tell her.

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