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  • in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9615
    divjun
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    @travelbug , @laurais and @mike
    Thanks for your response πŸ™‚
    Yes, I will try to focus on myself and I will tty not to stalk him more.
    Btw he deactivated his fb account last week and doesn’t use anyother social site.
    He uses just an app to talk. I have deleted that app so that he couldn’t contact me there.

    in reply to: Recent Heart-break #9571
    divjun
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    This is a positive news and good job not replying. Its working.
    He ll try to contact more trust me. πŸ™‚ so happy for you πŸ™‚

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9564
    divjun
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    Thanks for encouraging me πŸ™‚
    I know I have to focus on myself but I cant stop thinking about him.
    And yes, I ll get back with him only when he begs me to.
    I dont want to be his doormat.

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9555
    divjun
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    Day 5 of second round of NC:-

    I woke up at 3 in the afternoon. He is not in town today. I ll hit the gym and salon. Didn’t receive any msg from him.
    I have been stalking him on an app. I have heard that some girls are trying to get closer to him. Anyways his friend told me he is not dating anyone. Just passes his time by talking to them and he never initiates contact with them.
    Anyways, I hope getting a text from him today.
    He is out with his family visiting some relatives.

    in reply to: Help please!!! Girlfriend says she wants to be alone! #9546
    divjun
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    First see how is she responding to your NC.
    How to talk after NC will depend on the situation at that time. Dont worry about that now.
    Can you read my thread too? I would realy appreciate your views on it. πŸ™‚

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9516
    divjun
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    Well, he is not THAT sad. He is aways busy talking to girls (which I hate the most) at night.
    If you wanna know more , you can check my other threads too. I feel like that the fights we used to have caused so much frustration in him and thats why he is not contacting me. I m sure he loves me but doesn’t wants to be with me right now.
    He said he was happy in a wqy when we were apart for a month because he didnt have to fight for 14-15 hours a day.!!!!

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9508
    divjun
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    Thanks πŸ˜€
    I ignored his texts and calls for a week.
    But he isn’t contacting me this time πŸ™
    It feels so bad and disappointed that he tood me he cant live without me just 4 days ago and now not contacting me again. :/
    I think I ll give him and myself some time. I hope it gets better with time πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Where do I go from here!? #9504
    divjun
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    And that girl is nothing.. I am having three girls in my situation :p
    Dont worry about her.

    in reply to: Where do I go from here!? #9502
    divjun
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    You’re doing excellent. I don’t think I need to guide you much because you’re in a better place than me.
    I think you really have a good chance getting him back. Keep the spirit πŸ™‚

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9499
    divjun
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    Thanks leslie πŸ™‚ and yes I m on NC again. But I m not planning the number of days of NC. I ll just see when he reaches out for me in the way I want (feeling guilty and actually begging me to get back).
    And I m going to prepare for my exams well. Last time I didnt clear it because of the constant fights we were having. So I ll try to cear it this time :)…

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9490
    divjun
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    @keepcalm.. yeah.. I have already started NC. Lets see what happens πŸ˜‰

    in reply to: broke NC and did something really stupid. need help :( #9489
    divjun
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    Thanks laurais πŸ™‚
    I have started second round of NC and its day 4. Again he didnt contact me.
    I have my exams next month so I am going to keep myself busy studying for exams.
    I have that much faith or u can say trust in him that he wont get into another relationship. He might be frustrated due to our constant fights and his friends say he is getting better now.
    I don’t know I ll just talk to him when he is fine and ready to accept what he did and change for good.
    He needs space as I can see. So NC is the best option for me .

    in reply to: Help please!!! Girlfriend says she wants to be alone! #9480
    divjun
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    Hey mike,
    Relax its okay. You did the righy thing by giving her her space.
    Right now she wants to enjoy her life without any restrictions.
    Let it be.
    She still loves you but needs her space.
    Continue with NC and don’t take stress. Everything’s gonna be okay soon. πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Starting second round of NC #9444
    divjun
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    Hey creed.. yes keep up the NC. You’re doing really great. Let her think why aren’t you replying.
    And hey I too started second round of NC and I would really appreciate if you go through my thread and give your views on it. πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Recent Heart-break #9443
    divjun
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    Hey, you’re doing really great. Keep that spirit. And yes.. happy birthday πŸ™‚
    Don’t pick up his call. Don’t reply to his texts. Don’t break NC. I broke NC and I am feeling really studlpid because everything was going great but I destroyed it.
    So continue with NC. He wants to wish you afterall its your birthday. So this is a positive news. πŸ™‚

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