[Daan12945]

well its 2 months ago since te breakup and to be honest i feel a little bit of relief. Im aware that the relationship wasnt any good still it could go better. There are many other girls who can be special. If you have them in your life and you spending time togheter you will make someone special for you. My ex want to be friends but only friends. Better is just to dont talk about the relationship but be positive of what I had togheter the last 5 years. If i keep whining about our old relationship its only negative. The past is the past. Im looking forward to new girls but first i want to spend some more time with my other friends. If my ex wants me back ill think about it but if she want that i want a good conversation.

Some things why people break up can’t be explained. There is no chance only a feeling. if your ex feels safe and happy with you maybe she comes back to you I still love her en she loves me i know. and maybe at some day, one day we maybe cross paths togheter. But she has always a special place in my heart. Like I have in her heart.
Try to stay positive. The persons you love the most will always stay with you.
If that somebody doesnt want anything to do with you anymore they are not worth it
Every relationship is unique so maybe there is also a unique solution. You must live with yourself because you are the only one who can make yourself happy.

[Daan12945]

Well i think its time to tell my break up.

I’m in the NC for about 2 weeks. She broke up. She doesn’t feel enough for me to be her boyfriend anymore. We had a 5 year relationsship and it was all fine sometimes what had some opinion differences. 4 weeks before the breakup we were on vacation and everything was fine. It came out of the blue that breakup. Because she didn’t let me notice it. She never tells me what she feels, most of the time i had to pull it out. She says that she doesn’t feel in the relationship anymore but she still loves me. but she saw the relationsship as an addicition.

She want to maintain friends but it takes a long time to be good friends. If we are not friends its also okay for her. We are gonna speak eachother at the end of Oktober.

I realy want her back. Because it were the best 5 years of my life. But the problem is that i don’t know WHY she broke up. Maybe it was a lack of independence. She seems that she realy knows what she is doing.

Before the no contact i made many mistakes. The 2 weeks after the breakup was very pleading and begging etc etc. then i hold the contact and was checking when she came online on whats’app and stuff. I ‘bumped’ into her. then after those 2 weeks I stopped the checking and stuff but still talked to her a bit.

Now im 2 NC period. She has a best friend(girl). Her best friend was dumped 3 weeks before our break up and she had a relationsship of 3 years. And she had given him up saying that this was indeed better. maybe it had something to do with it. My ex doubted of the relationship but she is like a closed book.

I need some advice what to do and what the chances are in getting back together because you only gonna think about what the problems are if the damage is already done. She doesn’t fight for it but ill, because i want to be a winner.

Pls help.

[Daan12945]

well, Its out after 5 years,

I have had a breakup with my (ex)girlfriend so its realy though, she says she has it difficult and dont want to speak until the end of oktober. Ok fair enough i think. I need some space too.

We had an incredible relationsship never made any fights just some opinion differences. 3 weeks after being on vacation what was realy beloving, she broke up she doesn’t feel anything for me. She just want me as a friend and a realy close friend. Ok i accept that but i still realy love you like the first day we began. if i say that i dont want to be friends she accepts that. So i wont it realy close to me. If she wants to be with me that would be very great. But if she don’t wants to be with me in a relation also good.

I just want her to be happy, but with me in her life not without her. It needs a realy long time to build up a good friendship and eventually to be togheter. My feeling says (after a month) she is ‘the one’ and I vowed to myself not to take any dates or gf any more. It gives me a comfortable feeling when i vowed that. I want your opinion we are all sharing the same experience.

I know what i did wrong, and im gonna make a positive change in that without change my personality. I am who I am. She didnt want that i change for her. Im doing the no contact thing, but I realy realise that our relationship wasnt healty anymore but i didnt get the chance to work on it.
I hope you can help me.

PS. Its out for a month already

[Daan12945]

well, Its out after 5 years,

I have had a breakup with my (ex)girlfriend so its realy though, she says she has it difficult and dont want to speak until the end of oktober. Ok fair enough i think. I need some space too.

We had an incredible relationsship never made any fights just some opinion differences. 3 weeks after being on vacation what was realy beloving, she broke up she doesn’t feel anything for me. She just want me as a friend and a realy close friend. Ok i accept that but i still realy love you like the first day we began. if i say that i dont want to be friends she accepts that. So i wont it realy close to me. If she wants to be with me that would be very great. But if she don’t wants to be with me in a relation also good.

I just want her to be happy, but with me in her life not without her. It needs a realy long time to build up a good friendship and eventually to be togheter. My feeling says (after a month) she is ‘the one’ and I vowed to myself not to take any dates or gf any more. It gives me a comfortable feeling when i vowed that. I want your opinion we are all sharing the same experience.

I know what i did wrong, and im gonna make a positive change in that without change my personality. I am who I am. She didnt want that i change for her.

[Author]

Posts