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Hello to all of you. I am new here and this is my (complicated) story.
I have been married for 5 years but we are getting a divorce. I am not here for my husband though, it was my decision to break it off and we have a child so no contact can’t apply to us. I am here for the man I feel madly in love with… I’ll explain briefly. After Christmas I started to believe that there was nothing left to do to save my marriage. I was feeling lonely and miserable and my husband declared he had nothing more to offer me (emotionally and sexually). So I joined a dating site and at some point I met J. He told me he was divorced. We met a few times, it was awesome, and finally we fell in love. Only then did he tell me he was married. We had our ups and downs but our thing lasted four months. Everything was getting more intense. He even said he loved me. Finally we broke up because he said he would never leave his wife no matter how in love and alive he felt with me. In the meantime I asked my husband for a divorce cause I was sure our marriage was dead.
I started no contact with J. for 52 days, then broke it. I texted a comment about a movie’s soundtrack, nothing else. He replied the next day commenting on the movie as well. I didn’t text him back. I am now in day 6 of no contact (second round) but it still hurts a lot!!!!!!
Sorry for the long post
