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Ok just a small update
2 days gone of this second round of NC.
So far, no reaction from her, but I didn´t expect that so soon either.
Tomorrow is the day I invited her for coffee (she didn´t reply to that invite, remember?)
But what if the reply comes tomorrow and she says yes? Should I continue the 30 days NC, or go for the coffee? Just in case… I highly doubt it will happend, but I want to be prepared…Anyways, she is still very active on Facebook ect. She likes a lot of pictures. Just not any of mine.
I have thrown out most of my clothes, and gotten a completely new style (Yaaay)
I posted a picture of me on Facebook to show it of, wishing all my friends a good weekend. Big smile and everything to show I was happy. It got a lot of likes and some comments. But nothing from her…Is she deliberately trying to avoid me?
Thanks man. I have a feeling this NC is going to be hard on me because I wont get any reaction.
I will keep this topic updated with the progress. Even if there is no progress 🙂
And hope to get some response from you guys. It makes everything a lot easier when you have others to talk to about it. 🙂I dont really feel like I have any power…. I want her to be the one who feels all the feelings that I have been through. I want her to sit all night thinking…
I want to feel like I at least mattered a little…
Guess you guys are right… But I am sure you can all understand why I have the urge to do so. 🙂
I wont write her. Just hope she wil text me doing the next month, so I have something to ignore… That will give me the power…
Yeah I know… I am just so upset… I have litterly been through all the emotions these last 3 weeks. Hate, love, cofused, anger, sadness and so on. She haven´t displayed a single sign of emotions… (Except happiness with her new friends and job)
Guess I am just looking for some sort of reaction…
But you are right… I am better then this. I must not give in to these urges…
Thank you for your very detailed answer.
Deep down inside I know that just cutting her of is the best solution. But I am affraid she wouldn´t even notice. I want her to text me so I have something to ignore… That would make her see it.How about just:
“Sorry, cant do this friendship and support thing when you are not interrested in it. Good luck”Since the Coffee invite was for Sunday, I could write her “Nevermind the coffee invitation” and then go NC after that…. (I am sure she will reply to it, and then I have something to ignore)
Perhaps it is just because I am so upset right now?
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