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Don’t ask any questions. It took me a little while to realise you probably don’t need to ask them. You were in the relationship too, stop and thinking objectively about it and you’ll find out the answer yourself.

I have fucked things with my relationship as it stands, so don’t do what I did.

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Seems to be chatting to one of her guys mates? What evidence is there?

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Remember she is feeling exactly what you are feeling right now.

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You know what. Yes. Don’t deny her that. But yield to overcome. Don’t be reactive to what she says. Show you are independent if you have to be.

Stay calm, take a deep fucking breath. And wait.

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Go no contact, it will work. Or meet her, but don’t beg for her. Don’t agree to be just friends. Be brave!

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Start a new thread man!

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I’m not replying yet, but I feel good for some reason. I’ve written a text, I’ll wait obviously:

Look, what are we doing, just come down and see me woman! I’ll pay for your travelling this weekend, it’s the least I can do. The boys will be happy to see you, and I will be too! We can just spend the day together, that’s it. I want to see you! Xxx

FUCK IT PATRICK, LETS GET OUT OF OUR HEADS.

What kind of woman would want guys like us when we’re feeling shit right?

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I won’t actually reply till this evening now. I think I know what to say but I’m not going to rush things.

Was going to say:

Oh right haha! So, are we on for Sunday then? Xxx

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Your friend is right. Don’t feel bad!

I like that quote.

She replied to me this morning:

I’m not actually there yet but thanks. Have a nice rest of your week. Xxx

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How is the waiting game going for you? How are you feeling?

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Was reading about all the no contact stuff too at the time.

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It was only three days after she’d text to say it wasn’t to get back together.

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Because I went with everyone else’s advice instead of with my gut.

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Be patient. She’ll want to look good when you meet!

I just can’t stop thinking about lost opportunities. Like where we’d be now if I’d just gone with your first message.

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Also, do you think it’s ok for me to ask if she is seeing someone else?

Probably not in my situation right? Haha.

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