[Catafox84]

Thanks so much for your input. I’m very keen to hear what others say as well.
Today, I’ve been very distant. He bought me a piece of cookie cake that he have to me when I picked him up from work. He also came to bed and snuggled for a little while. At this point, I think it may do more harm than good to shun him. I want to try to plant as many positives in his head as possible. It could just be that he feels guilty about the anniversary or what transpired yesterday. I just don’t know what to do. I will absolutely distance myself, but does that mean I need to say no to his advances?

[Catafox84]

Does it sound like there is a chance of reconnection? I have a hard time believing this is completely over with all the mixed signals. I’m going to try to keep my distance, as much as possible.

[Catafox84]

I have nothing to add except that I hope you get some answers. I live with my ex. We co-own a home. I have a kind of similar story you can read about a few threads below. No one has yet commented, but I know where you are coming from.

[Catafox84]

I could REALLY use some insight into what all the mixed and polarizing signals have been. Today would’ve been our anniversary and I’m really down in a hole today. Some direction from an outside source, I think, would help provide some direction. Please and thank you in advance!

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