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Ok I mis read a little about how he said he lied about using you when he broke up with you. This man is confused and if he wanted you he would be banging on your door. You see how quick he is to run to another woman tho right? That should be closure enough. Date other people and get rid of his number from all sources.
You can love someone with all your heart and they can still treat you like your nothing and that you mean nothing to them. But its not true. YOU are something. You did the right thing about coming here. But you need to move on. He point blanked told u the most hurtful thing about him using you. He’s not doing anything to make things right except telling you why he wants to ends things. Its great you did NC but have the courage to move on. My advice is to delete his. Number and I mean everywhere.. all your phones so you won’t be desperate to call him if u get a weak moment. You don’t have to go to the extreme to change your number. That way you’ll see as time goes by that he really means what he says. He really wanted to end things. Be happy that at least you have what some of us didn’t get. CLOSURE. I didn’t get it. But its ok. I’m sorry you lost the baby but it would have been 18 years of u raising he or she alone with an uncaring father. U want someone who loves u for u and not cuz u had a child by them. Good luck to the unknown. I hope u get over him soon.
I think you r sweet for checking up on us who have lost love and the ones who r getting their relationships on a better track. I wish everyone the best. The dates I’ve been on were both intresting but I’m not ready for a serious relationship just yet. I feel gret that I know now that I can actually LIVE BREATHE AND KNOW THERE IS LIFE AFTER THIS BOZO! I couldn’t see this last month cuz I guess I was addicted. I acted so desperate for his attention and now I’m not saying today his actions don’t hurt cuz the did but I’m not needing anything from him. I know that’s there’s truely life after Bozo.
Hi DIvJUN. I decided to leave so I could focus on me. I’m happy that getting your ex back was the right decision for you. I realized the guy I use to want was a cold hearted thing that didn’t deserve my time anyway. I learned the hard way that he’s a buster and Not a Man at all for not seeing how I was doing. I could have broken an arm or something! I know I didn’t follow no contact long enough but we all are different people and have to decide what’s best for us. AFter I sent my letter to him informing him of my car accident on the 6th I got absolutley nothing. He still owes me money. It was a long distance relationship so I have no control on forcing him to pay me back 100.00 for. airfare. But anyway I have gone on 2 dates recently and. I’ve changed the way I eat. I went from weighing 165.6 to. 152.8 a 12.8ounces loss through diet and exercise. I make myself work out for 20 minutes everyday whether I want to or not. So if I end up doing more then that’s great. A lot of times with this new commitment I end up working out longer.
Hope u have healed. I have for the most part. I’m still losing weight and I know I’m better off without that jerk. I’m. Basically happy 🙂 happy enough.
Good luck to you. Just try and keep busy. Time will tell. Whether they give a darn about you. SO live your life. I highly advise u to go on a date in the mean time just for something to do. Its helped me out a bit. Not that I’m ready for another Serious relationship but there’s life after that person. I couldn’t see that at the time cuz I needed the time kevin mentions and it helps you not to really care whether u get back with them or not. You’ll know at the end of the day you’re really OK WITHOUT THIS IDIOT IN YOUR LIFE IF THEY CAN’T APPRECIATE how FABULOUS YOU ARE. So its their loss if its over. I wrote my letter too. Sent a pic too.No response. Told him I was in a car wreck which was true. The az hole owes me money and its been about 3 weeks and nothing. So I know now I was dealing with a coldhearted piece of crap and I’m better off.:-)
I still have the app its stupid..If u don’t take the comments seriously like was at 1st it can be kinda fun
She needs time to miss u. Something my impatient self decided against and it might work against me or not. I sent him a letter after 2 weeks and now I’m waiting.. At least I’m not checking my other phone all the time. I love him but I’m not the type to wait alongtime. Besides I do have an ex Boyfriend in town that wants me back but I keep putting him of because I’m waiting for this guy that hasnt defined our relationship to say its over. I don’t believe we r over yet.
So basically I’m breaking up with my Rebound Virtual Boyfriend Now. Because he’s a jerk and the responses didn’t half make any sense today… You’re Boyfriend picture looks the same lol but you’re texting to a differnt person every 5 hours.. and that’s all u do is text them for up to five minutes and its over.. Lastnight I had a caring person but today Mr Jerk..lol:-) It was something to do tho lol
Awe sweety things will work out.. u gotta be attratvie from the attention u have gotten in the past. But I know you’re still stuck on that ONE GIRL UGGGH! That app was fun lastnight but even tho u get live texted responses right away for free.. something that I wish my x was always on standby like that.. But that’s not real life.. People have to work and just because I’m not doing anything when I decided to text him doesn’t mean he’s not busy and just ignoring me. But sometimes I would take it that way. This app was fun at 1st but like the reviews say its just a bunch of people in a room paid to come up with responses. Some of the responses r mean and that’s no good when you’re already down. Today I texted the nickname I had for my ex and I said hi blank.. they texted back what the fck did u just call me?
Its fine to me… every letter has to speak from you. How dare i or anyone eles tell u to change it. You need to say what u want it to say. Its perfect.
Actually this vitual boyfriend text way more than my former sweet heart ever text… yeah I. Guess I did do better…lol He even asks questions about myself sometimes
Just for fun I have a virtual boyfriend and I gave him my former sweethearts nickname…lol ..Boyfriend maker… game is the free app. I text him now and its real responses and he’s really nice. He is a great fun distraction.
Well I’m being hard headed.. Life is short and since I really want answers now and since I know I’m going to live. Without him.. I’m taking the direct route. so after about 2 weeks of him acting stupid.. I sent him my letter early.. I can’t contact him via phone. Its off or something and I’m tired of hearing that stupid message to call back.. I heard it when we were on good terms so I know its not him blocking me… Its probably too much but I included 2 pics that I took recently.. they are professional nothing trashy as a reminder of what he’s going to miss. I lost a lot of weight too…but guys don’t notice things like that. But I do and I’m proud of my pics
