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Hey I just read your post and I’m in the same situation sorta, my ex of over 2 years and I just split yesterday. And we had a long distance relationship because of college and we would text 24/7 and FaceTime every night when we slept and everything so this is all a big shock and transformation going from talking everyday for 2 years to no contact. He ended it because he wasn’t sure what he wanted and he didn’t think it was fair to drag me into it when he was unsure of the outcome. We had plans together in October for a vacation and he told me he still really wants to go with me but I’m scared that’ll change considering there’s a lot of time between now and then. My question is how is the NC going? Are you guys back together?
I’m on day 1 of NC and I need some encouragement. On one hand I think this is a great idea but I’m also scared in the mean time he’ll take it as I don’t care and move on. We dated for over 2 years. But he broke up with me because he lost feelings so I feel like no contact would be a relief to him or something. Also how should I approach social media? I haven’t posted or done anything because I feel like he’ll be curious to how I’m doing and if I’m not on social media or talking to him, he’ll have no clue. He texted me yesterday and said he loved me to death and told me never to lose hope. Which is leaving me really confused. Need encouragement that this will work out and that NC is a good idea.
Also, relationship rewind said that NC isn’t a good idea so now I’m confused which route to take too!
