[Bree]

So Platinum, I just read your whole thread and it’s almost scary how similar your story is to mine! My ex and I also had a great, if not perfect, relationship that he suddenly broke off after he left for college, leaving me confused and devastated. I honestly don’t understand what compels them to abandon people so important to them in such a short amount of time, and not be fazed by the absence of said important person in their life.

I envy your self control because honestly, I don’t think I can force myself to be bubbly and cheery when I am talking to him. There’s just too much pent up anger in me and the thought of pretending nothing happened after he screwed me over is just too much to handle. If anything, I plan to just call him and demand closure. I know that is not the wisest thing to do if I want to salvage our relationship, but I really just need to know WHY he did what he did.

Anyway, I really like your story and just wanted to comment because I wanted to see where it ends up. You sounded like you made a lot of self-improvements and I’m proud of you and I’m sure your ex will come crawling back to you in no time. Go girl!

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