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we’ve been together for almost 3 years now.
thank you guys! 🙂 i didn’t really follow the rules of NC. I broke it actually but it worked. my boyfriend broke up with me December 9, 2014. At one point, I begged him to stay. I tried calling him and texting him, no response. So I decided to do NC. I tried my best not to post photos or status about him, I only posted things that would make my boyfriend think that I’m happy on my own. And then one night, he messaged me on Facebook. I already knew he was drunk. He said he didn’t want me to call him anymore and he said he just wanted to forget everything about me and all that. I didn’t reply because I don’t really like talking to him when he’s drunk. the next day, he didn’t go online. I was starting to miss him, I wanted to talk to him so badly. So I broke my NC. I texted him that night, but it looked like he was already asleep. So I went to bed and then the next day he texted and messaged me on Facebook. We talked about seeing each other and talking things through for the last time and we both agreed. We talked about the things we needed to talk about, there weren’t any shouting or arguing. It was just a normal talk. And then he said he couldn’t eat and he couldn’t focus on anything when we were apart and he said that even though he wanted to be mad at me, he just couldn’t. And we decided to get back together. 🙂 So apparently, the NC worked even if it was just for 3 days. I’m glad I did it and everything’s back to normal between us. 🙂
