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Nope. I didnt chase him. I did my Nc almost a month. And i started to text him. I told him my interesting activities. Everything seems fine we talked normal and laugh and he fell asleep. And the next day, i went to lunch with my friends like a lunch buffet. I post it up in social media. My friends also post it up. Bit my ex bf liked his status about that lunch! He didnt like my status at all. And i said ok its fine. Perhaps his gf will see that. And suddenly he text me and said “what a lovely lunch u had” and i text him 3 hours later and i said “yah. Got promotion. Hows your fever anyway?” And he didnt reply for the next 24 hours. So i sent him general news about flooding nowadays. And he did reply very normal. And i teplied him at midnight. He seems like hot and cold but he asked why im check in hospital? And i said ohh have to do some surgery things. And we talked about it and he seems like he cares a bit. Like a friend. And then when i asked about him hows his life, he fell asleep. Its very very general and not chasing text. Its very normal and we got things to talk about and its not our relationship at all. He read my last text this morning and he didnt reply. I tried to look every single words. There is nooooo wrong in there.
So u tell me about it? Is there any clingy part?
I know its like a joke but…does it hurt u if u were his ex? Or u just laugh and there is nothing to worry about?
Me too. But perhaps, you can wait her text and at the same time u focus on urself i think? Or maybe u can write apology letter?
Anyway I saw his update last night in social media. And he said “waxing is fun until you leave it for too long and it clings…like your clingy ex lol”
I even checked my last text and all. It didnt sound clingy at all. It didnt sound needy at all. Did he talked about me? Or maybe he is waxing and his gf said that to hin and he found that funny?? I did clingy thing and beedy thing but its been more than a month i stop doing that because i didnt contact him like a month. Its not about me right?
First of all, why she wants to create a fight? Why u think like that? Is she a person who likes to fight?
I saw his update last night in social media. And he said “waxing is fun until you leave it for too long and it clings…like your clingy ex lol”
I even checked my last text and all. It didnt sound clingy at all. It didnt sound needy at all. Did he talked about me? Or maybe he is waxing and his gf said that to hin and he found that funny?? I did clingy thing and beedy thing but its been more than a month i stop doing that because i didnt contact him like a month. Its not about me right?
Yes you are. You need to calm your mind seriously. And you need to calm yourself. Because your mind drives u crazy even good things try to enter your head
Oh no dear. Dont text her like that. It looks like u been waiting and a bit needy for her. If i were your ex and i have problems, i will be a bit annoyed. You should text her like this
“Hey its been awhile since we last text. Are u okay? Everything alright there? Just checking if i can help anything”
Did u see so many points in positive way in this text instead of previous text like kinda push?
Still. You received it indirectly. Well my ex didnt. At all. He didnt even like my status. Or he didnt realized anything. So do u think she will reply yours?
To be honest, this letter i actually kinda did it directly when i met him after we broke up few weeks after that. We made it clear and i said im fine with this broke up, i respect him, i hope we still be close and care for each other. He hug me and i hug him. And that time he said that im getting slimming a bit, and my skin getting better and he said he loves my smell. I thought i made it. Until i saw he with her grtting sweeter and so…i start my Nc. I dont know whether i should write again the letter thing with the same understanding. I feel give up because i dont even get a shot since he didnt reply me. I have so many things to show him but he seems not interested i guess? Sigh.
Me too. I did it. But when i look at it. The cons is the thing that i can handle. But right now… I dont have a chance to prove it. U do have chance to prove it. U dont need to be so confused or overthinking really
“the answer is that I didn’t care enough to get upset at her picking a fight with me.” Is it good thing or bad? My ex bf is a person who does not like to fight and he likes harmony and peace.
Why u feel lost? Did u text her? Is she now with someone else? Or she still have problem? Tell me
Did u text her today?
Im tired of crying. Im tired of waiting for his respond. Im tired of everything i planned and its not even close to reveal it because he has her and always about her! Why i cant have some good respond from him like your ex did :(( why i cant have some good compliment from him about like @samuel ex gf did? Why? I did everythinggggg! New looks. New personality. New me. He didnt even notice. I thought they have problem because they didnt update about themselve for two days. Noooooo she update just now and its still about him. Great -.-” having bestfriend as girlfriend. Move on right away after we split up and he already talked about right person?? Whatever. Its not fair. He left me like this at the end he seems happy with her like two months now! Urgh give up!
Do u think i should write a letter too? As i thought, he read my text but he didnt reply mine. Sigh. I think i give up right now. Really. I give up. I really dont have a shot even a bit. He didnt allow me to! All he think is her her and her! Sigh! Why they dont even fight or anything! Urgh!
It will be two possibilities. First its getting better, second she wont respond that much. Its like u finish your NC. When i finished mine, i thought there will be two posibilities, so mine will be second. He wont respond that much. So when u going to snd that letter?
U can send that letter but for me u just have to go with the flow. Start from bottom. Create new relationship
Yes they still together and they still fine i guess. Just now i text my ex and we had really normal talk. Total of our sms is 8 sms only. And then he fell asleep but i do believe it seems like he wont reply my text again since her girlfriend is back in city from her hometown. Thats why im scared right now that i will never ever gve a shot since he seems not interested.
I think u justt write her normal text or some interesting news. Unless u guys stoll havent clear whatever u guys had in relationship. Like mine, he said we need to be friends only and all. So i have to start from bottom. It takes time but i really need to start from bottom. He seems hot and col. Indeed. But in rewind relationship in drifting, communication is very important. So i try and i hope i cn do well no matter what. I think u should do this.
