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How long they have been together?
Even tho he is her bestfriend but its still considered as rebound?
Right now im doing the nc for 9 days. I know how you feel dear. Its really sucks for knowing thAt someone we loved didnt “care about you anymore. The worst part is they have someone else right away. Im not sure mine is a rebound since they known each other for 3 years (they were bestfriend before they couple). There is nothing i can do for him. I just try my best to do something that have benefits on me. I try to be happy, positive and take care of nyself. Its very hard but i have to. Seeing him with orher hirl, be happy and doesnt care bout me at all,,, its totally unfair
@tami420 why you guys will see each other everyday?
Ohh dear i feel you! 🙁
Hang in there. We dont know what guys think. We have to be strong. Just cry as much as you want but after that, we have to stand up and positive. I just came from the mall that my ex bf and his new gf went for a date. I swear, i want to burn this mall. Huhu im so pissed off and i really hurts when people said he choose her instead of me because he wants to be with her. Urgh!! He loves kisses and hugs and rhat girl like…so harsh and rude! How they went for date so well?? SighI wish i can read my ex bf mind. Huhu. I just want a second chance. Last chance. Im human. I did mistakes. But i try to make it right and he doesnt allow me to. In fact, he has someone else. Its totally unfair and i hate it. I hate the fact that he is happy without me and throw all his feelings to another gurl which is completely opposite me
I know. Sometimes i dont understand. How could he be so happy after we broke up? How could he move on so fast? Im not sure he doesnt text me at all because he wait for me to reply his last msg or he doesnt care at all and happy without me.
Sigh
I understand. I do love him and miss him so much. Remember our old memories like we were so perfect. Its just… Its not fair for me since he doesnt want to give me for last chance. Im human i made mistakes. But what to do. I just try my best to improve myself and i hope i can have him. Have you try “rewind relationship” by ryan before?
Well, im still doing my NC for 8 days now. I remain silence and stay away from him and social media. No news from him at all. He doesnt even find me in any ways like fb or even text my friend. He is dating with someone else which is his bestfriend like 6 weeks after we broke up and they seem happy and keep tagging, commenting in social media with each other. It hurts so much but there is nothing i can do because im still in nc.
I also feel like you where im not sure whether the Nc is a correct way for me and to him since he seems like he doesnt care about me or miss me. But i think nc is the only way that i dont look needy and clingy. Its the only way that i ccan improve myself. I dont go date. Im just hangout with friends, go to gym and spa To keep busy and improve.
I think is a good thing that she asked someone to check you up. It means she still care about you butshe scared to text you directly. So she might be used indirectly. How long her friends text you? How frequent? So far, my friend said my ex bf doesnt text her to check on me tho. Hmmm
Thank you ^.^ hows your situation going there?
You too! Im so stress and hurt to see their honeymoon phase. Urgh! Everything they want to tag each other like videos, pictures. Its like i dont even exist. And he doesnt even text my friend to ask bout me. Sigh.
That pain will always stuck on you if you allowed it to.
Silence meAns thousand words
Happiness is the best revenge
Pain is uninvited enemy.
We All heartbroken and painful. But we are stick together and support each other here. We can do this and we can be strong to get through this. I dont know about you but i know how painful you are. But your life is important. More important. Hang in there
I hope so. Hopefully he will realize it when im gone too long but yah im afraid he will forget about me too. Its hard when we used to be really close and had feelings for 8 months and suddenly a mistake blow his mind and he moved on with someone else and it seems pretty serious too. Im mot sure whether its rebound but yah i do my nc now. Try to keep busy and taking cvare of myself. I hope my time will be better soon. Hopefully yours too 🙂
Believe me. I used to think like that so that he will feel guilty and realized that its all about him who makes me feel like this but i realized that it wont give me any benefit. It wont help us. In fact, im afraid if you give up living now, she might be guilty at first, but later she will blame you pr think u negatuvely or just be pity. Its not a good thing. Be strong.
You mean you want to give up on NC and moved on?
