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  • January 19, 2015 at 10:57 am in reply to: I told I need space yet she still pops up #25097
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    She called me a prick so I just didn’t want her to think negative about me and I tried saying how its basically not my role to be helping her out and she kept telling me how that’s rude that I’m not helping her and that if I needed help she would be there for me

    January 10, 2015 at 10:36 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23650
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    oh wow thats such a nice bit of advice 😀 that helped a lot 🙂 what would I need to do in order to make her think more about me lol.

    January 9, 2015 at 7:44 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23587
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    tbh its hard because I’m not picturing an outcome other than us and I know that’s bad but its so hard

    And yeah I’m making changes lol listed all my flaws and working on each of them this month

    My nc officially started when she said Fine and I’m joining gym Monday

    January 9, 2015 at 12:11 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23549
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    right 🙁 its just hard to see the bigger picture because trust me she was the one and i don’t want to lose her and just would hate if the things between us were ruined 🙁

    how do I focus on the bigger picture :/

    January 9, 2015 at 4:14 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23474
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    yh that makes sense. How do I sound emotionally dependent maria lol

    January 8, 2015 at 9:04 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23443
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    So 30 days from now right?

    And NC from now because I’ve made my intentions clear or is it because of something else?

    January 8, 2015 at 7:29 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23438
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    HELP 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 3:57 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23416
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    okay so I said

    ‘Im sure it’ll be alright :P’
    ‘anyway I’m out’
    ‘take care :*’

    and she replied saying ‘fine’

    do I still stand a chance 🙁 I feel like I just ruined it for myself 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 3:44 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23413
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    yeah but she’s already heard my harsh comment so its like taking it back if i say something else 🙁 like she will think ‘he’s just said something else because i got offended’ I got some advice to just send a smiley face to her last reply lol wadya think ?

    January 8, 2015 at 3:35 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23411
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    shall i say it now instead 🙁 don’t want her upset with me 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 3:03 pm in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23396
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    LA I will try find another messaging service lol add me on WeChat 🙂 My name is ‘Arjun Kataria’

    So this is how the conversation went:

    (H) is her and (M) is me

    (H) 5th January @ 23.07 – Hey 😀

    (M) 7th January @ 22.18 – Oiiii -_- -_- -_-
    (M) 7th January @ 22.19 – Why ignore me -_-

    (M) 8th January @ 15.10 – Hey sorry just been super busy 🙁
    (M) 8th January @ 15.11 – I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you understand
    (M) 8th January @ 15.11 – Hope all is well anyway
    (H) 8th January @ 15.36 – It’s okay yeah don’t worry
    (H) 8th January @ 20.37 – Got a lot of stress at the moment tbh a lot of stuff I’m trying to do
    (M) 8th January @ 20.44 – oh okay good luck lol
    (H) 8th January @ 20.47 – Well that’s nice -_- -_-

    wadya think 🙁 was I too harsh 🙁 too blunt 🙁 I feel bad 🙁 I want to make her relieved of her stress 🙁

    January 8, 2015 at 9:57 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23327
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    What was the reason for the relationship breaking up?

    January 8, 2015 at 9:13 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23318
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    Okay so I said to her

    ‘Hey sorry just been super busy :(‘
    ‘I just need time to myself and a bit of space I hope you can understand’
    ‘Hope all is well anyway’

    what do you guys think ?

    January 8, 2015 at 9:01 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23315
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    Okidokes so just say that I need some time and to just leave me alone for a while ?

    Btw what’s up with Kik

    January 8, 2015 at 3:33 am in reply to: its only day 5 of NC and shes reached out twice #23283
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    So should I ignore her now and say that the next time she messages me?

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