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@LAbound exactly thats the way to go 🙂 I crashed as well LOL woke up at 6.30am for gym got back at like 8.30am went lectures from 9am – 6pm and was feeling knackered lol and woow good luck with that hope it all goes well.
Exactly Break Up 101 LOL and then it will just be an amazing couple made for one another 🙂
@LAbound thats adorable, I became quite close with my ex girlfriends brother and sister and knew them especially the little brother who opened up to me and I was telling my ex things that the brother told me and so I can understand how it must feel for you.
I wouldn’t look too much into that since it was quite a vague analysis and maybe she just felt weird when she texted you because she’s so used to love being between relationships that when she decided to text the person she initially loved she had to make it clear that it was a different love loool quite silly to clarify but just don’t look too deep into it.
Would you go to the party if she invited you ?
@LAbound I see how you came to that conclusion but to be honest when she does change and realise she wont get you back by simply asking for you back she will become a person that you would love to be with because 9 years is an amazingly long time and if you two had that history combined with a potentially new and reformed Her, maybe it would change for the better 🙂
@LAbound I think it is unfair that she is still associating the new you with the old new but she may think she knows you inside out based on her previous knowledge of you when you two were going out so I guess she feels you may cave in but you’re right by not reaching out she will start wondering and oh that will be quite an amazing day when she realises her boyfriend has no more content than a rock and that he was simply a filler
How is everything anyway 🙂 Hows the gym? and is Law of Attraction making everything feel better for you?
Guys can you please read my last post to understand why I am doing this
the thread is titled ‘she told me she misses me :/ help’
so ill post my letter on a new thread and get a lot of feedback on it 🙂 email me IamKramer you have been of great help and would love to have a method of contact with you in dire need lol. [email protected]
what should I be including in the message? but if i say i care for her and then do NC wont she think its bait of mixed signals ?
so if she reaches out to me then I should just ignore her regardless of what she says.
I want to ignore her fully but I want her to know I’m still that caring person I was when we were together but right now she may misunderstand this ignorance to be a case of me changing for the worse and becoming someone totally different :/ how do I stop her from thinking I am changing for the worse
What if she tells him her insecurities and he embraces it :/ she will have no problem with him then and everything will get better between them :/
How is it good signs though because this is just one obstacle and once its overcome then nothing will be a problem then.
Well I was speaking hypothetically but in the conversation where she told me she missed me. I said ‘well you’re man can probably make it better’ to which she replied ‘Idk nah man I don’t know’ and I said sorry that I am sticking to my decision of not talking to her (this was after she told me she missed me) and that this whole stress is going to continue and she said ‘Well I don’t know cause I don’t want to tell him’.
I still had no idea what the problem was lol but then she opened up to me telling’I don’t know, you at least knew everything before we went out, he doesnt’ to which I replied ‘wadya mean’. She said ‘You knew me right, before we out my issues or whatever’, I said ‘okay…’ she goes ‘Don’t you get it, how am I supposed to tell him then’
It was going back and forth with replies saying I cant be here as a support and then she told me she has been having this stress for ‘ages’. She then told me eventually that
‘Im feeling really shit about everything and I know I’m just pushing him away as well cause I don’t talk to him properly and he probably has no idea whats up’
So these are some of the problems I’m referring to when I say when she is suffering but I am more focusing on problems in the future like if she has no emotional support I’m scared what will happen to her because with me I was there for her when she needed me and Im scared he wont be able to provide the emotional support for her when she’s stressing out by herself.
At one point we were different religions, and knew we would eventually have to end it and go our separate ways because we weren’t the same religion and then we spoke about how we would still be best friends and stuff. Then I took an interest into her religion and our future became visible and actually possible but we still always said if anything happens we will still be the same really close funny best friends and so to take this away from her and rid her of our closeness she thought we would have after our break up kinda hurts :/
