[anton41]

i think about it though, that nc maybe good for some relationship , but not all, i have just a different feeling about this, maybe ill just follow my heart,

[anton41]

wow i feel you, we’re in the same spot, this just sucks right,
i was wondering, if i should continue the NC? because i know NC does not work all the time, it may actually be worst? i mean, if im not contacting her, she maybe thinking that its great because she can move on easily, she may completely forget me? she may say something like, “oh he’s absolutely fine about the break up, so so do I”
i think my ex is happier since weve broken up and i dont think that she misses me, should i try to contact her now? remind her of the moments weve had in the past? so if nothing happens, i can accept it fast and just move on, because NC allows you to get your hopes up that youll get back together, and theres a big chance that you WONT, idk NC is killing me day by day, its only been 9 days of NC, any opinions , advice please????

[anton41]

yeah yours sound like it still has a good chance, just keep up what youre doing and start being happy again, i know its very hard, but you have to,
im having a very hard time on being happy, everyday is like a rollercoaster ride, at times im good and happy, then im gonna be sad and be missing her like crazy, idk if whether ill keep my hopes up for her or just move on and forget about her

[anton41]

i was needy at that time, yeah ill just keep this up, but i dont think shes playing any games, i really think this is serious, the hard part is there is a part of me that still really really wants her and the other part wants myself to just move on, its just confusing

[anton41]

yeah youre right, im a man, i can do this, tnx

[anton41]

wow thats very calming to know that someone has the same situation haha lol
so what did you do after the NC? if you feel like youre getting nowhere, then maybe its really time to move on, i would love to help and give my opinion,
this stage just sucks, at times i feel good, i feel okay about it, i feel like its not that bad, but morning and specially night time sucks, i miss her the most and ill start to feel sad and feel like shit again, its been more than 2 weeks now and still finding it hard to move on, this is just a very confusing, but im trying to do my best, eating right, working out, bought some new clothes, really improving myself, idk if this will work, specially my ex was the “hard to get” type, bottom line is i just want my happiness and confidence back

[anton41]

thanks for the advice man, really appreciate it, you really think that we are gonna get back ? because i really feel theres something different about this time unlike before, like ive said, this is the first time that she’s really really serious about it and she really acts like she doesnt care for me, and i can really feel that,
but its great to know what you have said, hopefully it all works out fine, i just wanna be happy again

[anton41]

thanks for the advice, i just made up my mind and ill do just that, hopefully it works!

[anton41]

but knowing my ex, she told me the all the sweet things that she wants when we were still together, like i should serenade her, my instinct is telling me to do that because in my mind i think that it may get her back? im pretty confused

[anton41]

thanks for the advice, really appreciate it!, im just gonna wait it out and be strong then, hopefully it works

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