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Hey amcee,
I told the colleague the first time I ever spoke to him on Facebook that I had a boyfriend but that didn’t stop him pursuing me. I was never more interested in him than a friend. When he tried to kiss me, I pushed him away. I met up with him twice outside of work for a drink but only because we used to talk about computer games from our childhood which only he remembered and nobody else. We had stuff in common which I enjoyed talking about. My ex-boyfriend interpreted this as me trying to make him jealous. It was a difficult situation from my end because I don’t form friendships with girls very easily, so all of my friends are male. My ex-boyfriend knows this.
Hi Prod98, thank you for your reply.
A week before he broke up with me (7 weeks ago), he said he loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore, and that I have his body but not his heart.
I told him the last time I saw him (a month ago) that he should contact me if he changes his mind and wants to try again. He started crying and said ‘this is horrible’, and said ‘you’re an incredible woman’ and ‘thank you for being you’.
When he reached out to me almost 2 weeks ago I told him I was either in his life romantically or not at all.
Do I have a chance? 🙁
I really do feel that he was right for me despite his lack of experience in relationships. I’m not sure where to go from here and whether I have been doing the right thing by going no contact, and waiting for him to initiate contact again (if he ever does).
Hi amcee, thank you for your response.
I think it may be because he doesn’t altogether believe me. There was also an instance where a colleague at work fancied me and tried to kiss me, which I told my ex about the same night it happened. The fact the colleague tried to do that angered my ex and got on his nerves. He said ‘it should never have gotten to that stage in the first place’.
The main thing I don’t understand is why he reached out to after 2 weeks of no contact and was being romantic with me, when he was the one who dumped me?! I haven’t spoken to him in a week and a half and I miss him everyday. I have no idea if he feels the same way.
