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I havnt contacted her since 27th of Feb and now it’s her birthday on 25th March . Though I’m very sure that I should not wish her but just wanted to ask you guys What’s your opinion About wishing her or not ?
Hey guys,
I spoke to her on 27th Feb she was really weird.I asked her that what do you mean when you said “I never had trust issues with you but I’m the one who cannot be trusted” . To that question she got really angry and she said that she doesn’t wanna say it out aloud and she doesn’t owe me anything and she also said that I’m not alone.. she has broken my heart and today she is leaving to a really far off place where her new job and new boyfriend May be waiting .. I have nothing just to think about Her. I really love her and I have always cared about her. I’m sure she must be having fun but I don’t know if she will ever think about me or not . I’m trying to pass my lonely time with friends And I’m taking vacation soon.
Guys I really need to get her out of my head . She has really freaked me out. She didn’t even meet me once after the break up.
She is horrible I feel really bad because of her.As I’m writing this post I m just moving all the stuff she ever gave me or we ever shared. I’m feeling pathetic. I have started hookong up with ****s just to get over this pain .. but still I’m back to the square one .. I miss her very much
It’s exactly a 32 days after the split up.
I’m in ncp. I havnt contacted her just sent her the mail posted above got her reply. She is seeing someone I’m not sure about it .. She wants to move to a far awa. Where her current mate is . I’m feeling very bad .. I want to know the complete story whether or not she has betrayed me or not .. I’m so confused about all this. Please help
Got this reply from my ex.
Dear Aman,
Thanks for cancelling the tickets, it felt like a bit of pressure.I’m so glad that you’re coming around so well, especially with your work. Yes, some space and time would do both of us a lot of good. Really proud of the mature person you have become.
Hope you do better each day, you never fail to amaze! 🙂
My best wishes and prayers are with you.
Monika
I feel really betrayed. I have sent her the email didnt get any reply . So I have transferred the money i owed her. And i feel a bit relieved now.
Now im planning to focus on myself. But i still miss her i dont know what to do .. while she is enjoying her life with this new mate .. what do i do to take my mind off her.. its a pain to see her chatting with other dudes. i can only be silent .. while she has time of her life. When i broke up i sent her a mail that “you are the only one i want ” and she replied that she herself cannot be trusted and i deserve a lot better and i feel find someone much better and shit..
After all that im still trying to be happy and cheered up in front of my friendsbut deep inside im hurt im hurt real bad.. i have nothing but to grieve about this as it was my first love and i got cheated.
Help me people. Im burning inside.
Hey nick,
She is writing very casually , and the way she has written any man would get confused at this stage but speaking of which. I would suggest you to keeo Radio silence for 2 weeks. Just ignore her .
I have just been ditched amd dumped by my gf. I have made ul a few plans for myself. And now it is clear that i have to move on for greater good.
Actually our relationship was always in a long distanve relationship. First 4years were amazing as i did all the travelling to her . And used to visit her thrice every semester in college(engineering school=8 sems) . After that i came back to my hometown joined my famiky business. She went to some place stayed there for 6months in an internship met this guy she is fating at the moment .. she wanted to break up with me then only but i held it up and kept it alive she came back to our hometown .. we both live in same hometown . She joined a low scale job in our hometown.. but wasnt happy with it .. tried for other jobs was frustrated. Then she joined a puvlic sector unit and then we had ok time used to meet quite often but that job was also transferable.. then she moved to another city . And then we couldnt meet each other for even once a month was difficult sometimes. Then she had to go on a business tour to the same place where the guy she is dating right now was . They started chatting and all. I dont know more… Im trying to move on but i miss her and i have nobody real to talk to .. we were in an intense relationship and there was only marriage and kids were left to happen.. but then she told me that she is bored of me.. she told me thats “its not you its me” .. i feel terrible. But im moving on i miss her badly.. she knows herself that she is doing wrong .. but still she choses to do it . My last email to her was as below. ”
Dear ***,
Just wanted to drop off a small note to let you know that im completely okay with your decision to split up. Saw it coming for a while. I wanted to also let you know how sorry i am for acting like i did after the break up. It was totally disrespectful to you. I apologize that i hurt you.
Oh!some good news!i had a fantastic changr in fortune as i had got a few payments from my old projects in kashmir. Love to fill you in but in future. You and i both need some space right now for that matter i have cancelled your tickets to goa which i booked before our breakup to surprise you on valentines ( cancellation receipt attached).
I hope you are doing good with S***** and wish you all the success in future.
With best regards,
A****
Sent this mail yesterday,
I havnt got a reply yet.
Im feeling terrible inside..
I have planned on improving myself.
Plan 1 As kevin says get a hair cut.
Plan 2 gonna join gym .
plan 3 gonna start studying for MBA... BTW I GOT TO KNOW HER PLANS TOO .HER SISTER TOLD ME ALL THIS SHE WAS GUILTY FOR BEING RUDE TO ME BUT AFTER KNOWING THE FAXT SHE JUST WANTED TO TELL ME THAT YOU SHOULDNT WAIT FOR HER AND MOVE ON . MY EX GOT HER TRANSFER FOR TWO YEARS TO THE PLACE WHERE HER CURRENT MATE LIVES. SHE IS GONNA QUIT HER CURRENT JOB AND GONNA JOIN THE SAME COMPANY AS HIM. BUT THIS ALL DEPENDS UF SHE DOESNT GO TO STUDY MBA IN THE SAME PLACE AS I LIVE IN.
BTW IM FEELING TERRIBLE INSIDE. BUT I M GONNA FOCUS ON IMPROVING MYSELF AND LEAVE THE REST TO GOD.
HOW DO YOU SEE MY SITUATION NOW.
I wENT ON A DATE A FEW DAYS BACK WITH an old FRIEND JUST A CASUAL DINNER .. it was ok . I loved going out with my ex.
help me get her back i know she loves me too ..is it a rebound coz she knows this guy for 3years but this only triggered because i was depressed myself and couldnt keep her happy as i myseldf was not happy . I was screwed from all side. Faced huge losses in family business had troubles within family.. and always used to take out pent out frustration when i was with her she said sometimes that i dont like to do it at all any more.I was miserable. But now im gonna work things out. What if she comes back after 2months or an year or 2 .
Sorry this of this is too much too read .. help me please!
Time is not the essence of any love story . Its the memories you leave behind. If she was not happy with you or if ypu disrepected her before theres no way you can try and change those memories but you can only work on yourself and try be at your best .. if you tell her not to go with that guy she will obviously before you can even sit and think about what happened . So my advice is to let her do whag she wants .. your begging wont help.. and now you need to improve yourself .. may be go on a fe w dates with someone else. And may be its just that since youbhave spent 4years with her you are attached to her and you miss her but that does not really mean that you are still in love woth her. Coz if you were you would have never repeated the same mistake thrice .
Hey,
You are not a stupid girl, as we all know that love is blind , if you ever had feelings for this guy then its very easy to understand why you didnt agree with the person who told the truth about your boyfriend. He is dating someone else thats the truth.. if he didn’ t think about this at least he would have called you on your birthday. But no he didnt . He is over your girl and im sorry to say that there must be plenty of guys for you to make you happy . My suggestion for youbis to move on 6months is a short period of time . My gf ditched me for some other guy after 7years of intense relationship . I decided to move on.
But im still following the plan as i stated earlier love is blind
Hey,
First come first , get a temporary pregnancy test . And consult a doctor immediately , you have very less time, before you can do anything try taking emergency contraceptive pills if its during 72 hours of last sexual intercourse.
2. Dont let him do this to you it will only make your life worst. He is just using you for his physical needs and doesnt give damn about your life. He doesnt deserve this.
3. You deserve to move on , but i f you love him and if you think he loves you follow the plan as described by kevin.
