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Very uplifting 🙂 we all have a lot of hope and optimism, which regardless of the circumstances, is a great thing.
I’m sorry about your situation. I ppray it will get better for you. I am learning the hard way about no contact. We share a puppy and I’m going to have to take her because every time I see him I want to hug him and he was became cold towards me saying he does not want to come near me, he doesn’t miss me , he doesn’t think about me, he wasn’t happy with me. Unfortunately I don’t think it was me he was unhappy with I believe he is terribly unhappy with himself and is projecting that anger and hate on me and a few of his close friends. He has gotten rid of everything I’ve ever given him and taken down pictures and deleted me and my family and friends off of all social networking. He is trying to erase me from his life like I never existed. Something deep down is wrong with him and it pains me he won’t let me help. You don’t just love and show passion for someone one day and then want nothing to do with them the next. So I will stay away from him. I pray he remembers the place in his heart for me and allows it to open up to me. We were the love of each others lives. I am a forgiving person and he knows I will forgive him and move past this when he is ready. But I do need to move on emotionally so I will work on that.
I hope his love comes back to me. I know he is attracted to me even if he doesn’t want to be. But it’s physical right now. As for the light contact….I tried lightly contacting him and if he responded I ended up aggressively contacting him. I tried meeting up with him for lunch or walks and he’d go because the felt bad. Then the day before I started NC he told me its too hard for him to get this thoughts together and be alone with himself if I am hitting him up and wanting to hang out. So, to respect him, I started no contact. Its been 4 days which is very long for us and I am just waiting to see if he contacts me. He knows that if and when he needs me I am but a phone call away. Its extremely hard for me to do this but me contacting him at all seems to be aggravating him 🙁
