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I thought it was getting better, well it was, until a friend posted a picture( forgot to infollow her ) of the girls a year ago. My ex looked so happy.
Suppose I thought I was just addicted to her, but it hurts so much knowing I won’t get her back. She told me there was nothing I could do and I think I might have to except it.
I’m not breaking nc, I can’t see the point at this stage but I really want to :(.
day 8 of nc and it’s getting easier hardly thought about her at all today. Good progress
Do you guys think that sounds ok. If it goes well would it be a bit much to suggest meeting again, for coffee/cinema. Probably shouldn’t be but I’m just trying to plan ahead.
Yeh doesn’t bother me at all, the people that matter to us know.i was going to say something like this ‘ hey stranger, parked next to a car just like Penelope today ( name for her old car ha ha) reminded me of you, fancy meeting up for a coffee one morning/afternoon??. Something to that effect.
Right, I’ve asked for views on this before, she hasn’t removed our relationship status on social media, should i take it upon my self to do so. Also if she doesn’t contact me by the end of my 30 day nc( I say 30 day as I feel I will be in a much better place by then) should I contact her or leave it longer, I have a plan for what I will say.
One week no contact , getting easier, even got slightly drunk last night and didn’t even think about contacting her :).
If you get the emails it explains in there, if our relationship ment anything she will be thinking of me. So when I’m down that’s what I think.
Was out with my friends last night and just found myself looking at the door all night long, nc is going well so far, just need to keep my motivation up and leave her alone, possible the hardest thing I’ve had to do.
Dreams are such a pain, every night she’s in them and it’s all good, I wake up feeling great for about 5 seconds then reality hits ha ha. So annoying.
Cheers, I will get to the end of nc, also be strong your self :), If I get down I use the ‘ she’s thinking of me ‘ technique, it helps, doesn’t help that I’d bought a engagement ring ha ha.
Tonight’s the only night I’m not busy that’s maybe why I feel this way. There’s a chance I may bump into her at the weekend as our groups all drink I’m similar places. I don’t want to stay in as it’s my teams big night out. Perhaps staying off the booze will help.
