Wrote a letter to my ex..

[clear]

@aamls what’s rr?

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I don’t really get her intentions anymore.. I seriously think that she’s trying to move on.. And I’m starting to lose hope.. Why won’t she contact me after I wrote her that letter? It was 8 pages long.. God..

[cassie]

Don’t loose hope! She needs time to think.. maybe she’s trying to move on, but she won’t. She’ll start missing you so just give it some time. I know it’s hard but be patient!

[clear]

I don’t want her to move on, I don’t even want her to think that way.. I really HATE being on the side-line waiting. I almost just want to tell her what she wants, a break, a break up and move on or what.. We could still be together and I could give her time on her own, but knowing we can break up at any moment or not knowing wherever we’ve broken up or not messes up my mind.. Is she testing me??

[cassie]

I felt exactly like that for 3 weeks. My ex kept telling me he wasnt sure.. Your girlfriend is doing the same now and the best thing you can do is stay calm and not do anything crazy. I wish i’d acted different and given him space, so give her space. She’ll let you know when she’s ready

[clear]

Well tell me one thing.. Why does she need time to think? Why should she think if she wants to be with me or not? She’s listening to songs like
“Colbie cailat – try”
“Marina and the diamonds – Primadonna”
“charli xcx – you – HA HA HA”

Favoriting this on her twitter THE SAME DAY I GAVE HER THE LETTER.. :

My mind is about to blow up..

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I honestly have a feeling that she’s talking to someone else.. Honestly.. I JUST FUCKING HATE THIS! I know that she’s talking with someone else, my mind tells me so, so does my heart

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Has anyone actually gotten their ex back by any of these steps? Only thing I can read is negativity. All I can think of is negative.. I need some help guys.. Please.. More advices

[aamls]

@ clear rr is relationship rewind. I just finished my letter and my hand is cramping. ugh lol now im going to translate it to let @Cassie read it. hang in there its a tough road ahead but you got this, i’ve felt the same way with my husband as well so what your feeling is most likely normal. hang in there and continue no contact. 🙂

[aamls]

to know what she really wants to see have space time for herself. im guessing, she may also be testing you.

[aamls]

remember if she is thats her rebound

[clear]

She’s testing me by listening to stupid music, favoriting stupid things on twitter to seem like she’s moving on? That’s my test? If she gets in a relationship with someone else then it’s 100% over. She doesn’t trust guys, she said that.. How the hell can she trust someone new after 1 month if she even decided to move on? I’m depressed so I probably write a lot stupid things..

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This sounds maybe stupid, but can I like my friends pictures on instagram? NO GIRLS, only the boys pictures? I want to show her that I’m doing fine socially, but not contacting any of my friends or liking their pictures on instagram probably shows her that I’m weak and not capable of changing myself?

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Anyone with any suggestion or advice? @cassie ? @aamls?

[cassie]

But are you doing fine socially? I dont know if this no contact thing will work.. i hope it will for my sake but this is the first time i’ve tried it..

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