Wrote a letter to my ex..

[aamls]

if she hasnt been on those sites, but I think you said she has been, so that wouldnt really go with it, maybe she doesnt want anyone to know of the break up or she hasnt accepted the break and isnt being real to herself, im guessing. and on the other hand it could also mean she still has feelings for you, 🙂 which is a good thing.

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Now I’m doubting absolutely everything…. I don’t get what you’re saying, it’s confusing

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Seriously I want to call her right now…. LIKE RIGHT NOW. But I’m sure it isn’t a great idea..

[aamls]

I think she still has feelings for you, I think shes just in denial about the break up.

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Why should she be in denial? She’s the one that wanted to break up..
But she said she needed time and space because apparently she never got any -.-

[aamls]

what if she doesnt answer and or tells you something you dont want to hear. if you do you should send her a small text to see how she reacts, dont keep your hopes up if its not what you expect.

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[cassie]

You need to call her! If you get rejected, then wait a little while longer and try again. You wont get anywhere if you’re scared of the consequences. If she wants more space, she’ll let you know over the phone. It could also be that hearing from you is exactly what she needs. I say go for it!

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@Cassie
Thank you! Just what I needed to hear! I’ve waited for 4 days now, should I wait until Wednesday? That would be exactly 7 days! A whole week, hahah.. She isn’t active on almost any social media, can this indicate that she misses me? She isn’t listening to those hateful songs either!

Brb, taking my night walk!

[cassie]

Enjoy!

No matter what, she definately misses you – there is no doubt! She’s taking time away as she should to get her thoughts in order. See how you feel on wednesday. It may be that you want to wait until thursday or friday but for now, wednesday will be good. But one thing is for sure, don’t call her if you can’t stay calm on the phone. No matter what she may or may not say, you need to be able to stay calm! 🙂

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@cassie sent you an e-mail 🙂

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Should I talk to “our” mutual friend and ask her some questions? Or should I just stay away? She’s kinda two-sided, so I’m afraid that it will backfire..

[aamls]

if you feel uncertain then I wouldn’t if I were you.

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It’s really hard not knowing what to do.. I want to talk with our mutual friend and figure out what she has said etc, but I’m afraid that she will give the info forward to my gf. But it isn’t wrong just asking her if she knows how my gf is doing etc? or?

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Anyone?

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