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here it goes I meant up with a friend I knew for about 30 years her husband passed I wife left me anyway about a month ago I told my brother I think she has a drinking problem he went back and told her brother I was sending her texts like crazy she told me she was not walking away from the friendship II sent her make up flowers today she told the florist gentleman to get those of her property and declined them and hope left for me please help
please help me with some answer she wasn’t going to walk away because she was so hurt I did something like this to before we patch it up then I do something like this she told me she didn’t know how to proceed but the thing that hurt the most she don’t lie but she did any help would be appreciated thank you
i don’t know how to help, because I don’t know what exactly happened? Can you please explain more clearly?
ok her is what happened about a month ago I told my brother that his sister had a drinking problem he told her brother just out of curiosity she went to a birthday about a week ago for his daughter he must have told her what was said that it came from me which it did I adimted it she told me the friendship was not over with I texted her numories times to no avail so I sent her cartions to say I was so sorry she told the florist gentleman to get them off her property I don’t know what to do next do I stay away and hopes she comes around I don’t know what to do I want to hang on to her
Your story doesn’t really make sense to be honest. If she said the friendship isnt over, whats the problem?
because after she said that I have been texting her since last Thursday after she told me that last Wednesday she told me she didn’t know how to proceed in one of my texts I told her if it is over please don’t text me back because it would hurt me much and then with the carnation thing I think she might have had a change of heart and can’t forgive me maybe at this time I hope
She also told me she doesn’t lie but I think she just did not to hurt my feelings and maybe by not answer my texts that might be her way out
So she told you she didnt wanna be friends? If she said this, give her time to cool off, if she want to be friends make an active effort to be friends and fix the problem.
yes but I don’t want to text her any more if I keep texting her I pay be pushing her farther away do I wait for her text me even if she ever does by the way thanks for your help I don’t know who to talk to about this
If she told you she doesn’t wanna be friends, respect her space and give her time. Time is the only cure for something like this. If you keep in contact with her, yes you will drive her further away from you. When she is ready to talk, she will come to you.
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that is true but the one thing that happened today is I checked in a hospital I thought I was going to lose it my son called her cell phone left her a message telling her what happened never received a phone call back
I don’t mean to pry, and you dont have to tell me. Just trying to make sense of everything. You checked into the hospital because of the pain this break has caused you? If so, i’m proud of you. Thats taking a step in the right direction. She may need some time to process the whole thing.
yes because I was losing all control I have prayed to the Lord to listen to my prayer if you are right can I send you a little token of my appricton if she comes back if you don’t mind because I am a attorney up here in Buffalo and it would be my way of saying than you but I question do you think I have any chance of her walking back in than you
I think giving her time is the best thing you can do right now. Take this time to improve on your health and well being.
thank you I told you I told you I would send you a little token of my appricton for helping me through this difficult time if you change your mind I will just let me know and I will thank you for everything I guess I have no choice but to pray and hope to come to her senses one day if that day ever comes
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