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March 20, 2015 at 1:45 pm #37307
Hi Shelden. How are u? U need to try and relax about your situation. Try and be cool. She’s saying the right things to u now, that’s what u wanted ye. Try not to come over needy or it will scare her away. You need to control your emotions and take it a day at a time. No stress. I know it’s hard but you got to try dude. My situation looks dead in the water but I’m trying to play it cool, play the waiting game. It’s a hard game but it’s better than stressing out about things dude
March 20, 2015 at 2:43 pm #37313Yeah that’s true she just is wishy washy man! Like one minute she wants to work things out and then the next she is cold towards me and acts like she don’t care?
March 20, 2015 at 3:20 pm #37319Mate, I don’t know what to tell u. If I was you do no contact and stick to it. I know she’ll try and contact you but stick to no contact
March 20, 2015 at 6:58 pm #37343Idk if that’s the right idea though? What if she leaves me or something cause she just started opening up to me?
March 20, 2015 at 11:50 pm #37352Bump?
March 21, 2015 at 2:55 am #37363She just called me in the middle of the night and told me she had a really bad dream! It was about her dad! Her dad was never in her life but it sucks cause her bestfriend and others always mention stuff about her dad to her and she gets upset and angry! Anyways she just needed to vent to me about it and then she said she locked herself out of her bestfriends house and couldn’t get ahold of her! I offered that she could stay here and I could sleep in another room but she said she didn’t have gas and stuff so I said okay that’s fine and she kept saying she was cold so I offered to bring her a blanket or something but she said no! Well finally her friend answered the phone so I don’t have to worry about her Sleeping outside in her car! What do you guys think?
March 21, 2015 at 8:31 am #37373Do you think my chances are good?
March 21, 2015 at 9:38 am #37380Okay so if she is reaching out to me now and working on things slowly and always texting me and calling me now do you think I should go no contact? Or should I stay in contact with her?
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March 21, 2015 at 11:59 am #37400March 21, 2015 at 12:19 pm #37401Mate I don’t know what to tell u. My ex doesn’t contact me at all. I wish she did. Your going to have to do what u think is best! Everyone’s telling u to do no contact but you say it’s hard with her contacting you all the time. I know you can’t ignore her so I’m not sure what you best option is. All I can say is don’t mug yourself.
March 21, 2015 at 1:07 pm #37407I’m gonna do no contact so she knows what it’s like when I’m really gone
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