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March 19, 2015 at 6:36 pm #37196
hmm well maybe its okay if she’s doing it. I just think she’s doing it because she was desperate for you as well. I mean listen to her language… telling you any girl would be lucky to have you.. Im not saying thats not the case. But she’s trying to boost you up the best she can because she wants you to feel better about her.
March 19, 2015 at 6:56 pm #37200What do you mean by that?
March 19, 2015 at 7:23 pm #37206She is kind of right about it man. She said she tried to open up to you, and you kind of then shot her down with that conversation you had. Never pressure anyone, no one likes that and nor will she. Lesson learnt right?
That being said, don’t look at it as everything is fucked. She knows you’ll be going through a difficult time, no one is that stupid. You don’t need to tell her that. Just give her some space, as hard as that may be. Cool off for a few days, then you could apologise (keep it brief) for the outburst, if you feel you need to.
She kissed you man! Stop listening to your head, take a step back and look at what is in front of you. You’ll make better decisions with a clear head.
You can do this!
March 19, 2015 at 8:04 pm #37210Alright thanks man! It’s just so hard!
March 19, 2015 at 8:07 pm #37211Like I feel as if I just set her back again…this sucks!
March 19, 2015 at 9:01 pm #37212Goes it’s like taking one step forward and two back
March 19, 2015 at 10:36 pm #37230Okay so we talked again tonight! She said she loves me! She said she forgives me but she needs time to heal! She said that she don’t want to rush back into a relationship and have second opinions and end up breaking my heart again! Also she said there shouldn’t be a set amount of time to where we decide if we get back together or not! Also she kinda scared me cause she said “she will tell me if she wants to date other guys or not” what do you guys think? I’m lost on this one!
March 19, 2015 at 10:43 pm #37233Anybody have any input on this?
March 20, 2015 at 8:53 am #37267Anyone?
March 20, 2015 at 9:06 am #37269Take your time. Take your time. Don’t worry about time at all.
Write a text, then don’t send it. Wait an hour, look at it. Re-write it.
Even if it takes a day, or more. Only text back when you are calm. Only then can you speak sensibly.
Look at the way you post on here, does it look calm? Be calm.
Lie down, close your eyes, take deep breaths and just experience your feelings. Don’t label them, don’t think about them. Just feel them. Do it for twenty minutes. It will help.
March 20, 2015 at 9:18 am #37271Hmm okay but how will that help me? She gets mad when I don’t respond to her?
March 20, 2015 at 9:31 am #37273She just has me so confused
March 20, 2015 at 1:01 pm #37297March 20, 2015 at 1:11 pm #37302@Gingerone
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