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I dont know. He seems ignored me. Totally. He didnt reply my text but he keep online and update the social media about her. Nothing i can do. Right now i just wait if he wanted to text me. I dont why he make me so upset and he used to say im bery nice girl he ever met but still hurting me so much by showing lovely moment with his gf? I dont know. But my status is all about positive things. And funny. Nothing else. He didnt trll me anything anout my new me tho. So i give up really.
At least she said nice thingd to u and she didnt online yet.
@confused_girl Play it cool with him but try to keep in touch with him starting with low contact. Try not to rush it though. I think that I was guilty of that again a little recently.
I think that you are in a position to send your Ex a Happy New Year message today and sit back for a couple of days or so once the ball is in his court and see if he makes a response. Try not to get too downhearted if he doesn’t respond, you might have to leave it a week and try to contact him again. He probably wants to talk to you but also probably needs some space too at the minute from what you have said. Good luck!
I was on the top of his snapchat and now his friend from his old job…I want him to snapchat me more…I want to give up. But something won’t let me. I’m tired of meeting new guys, I don’t want to introduce another guy to my family…I just want him
So I sent him a snapchat of my necklace cause I accidentlly broke it this morning (I have beading tools, but I can’t fix it :(.) but he sent one back saying “I still have the pendent from your bra” (Victoria’s Secret bra, the pendents just fall off) I thought it was cute that he still has it. I didn’t even think of it. And I thought it was cute that he brought it up. What do you guys think?
@confused_girl i really need you need to stop analyzing ever text/snap chat. it can drive you crazy. your ex is confused and is as a result sending you mixed signals. if I’m not mistaken, not long ago he ditched you to hang out with his rebound girl and said he wanted to use you for sex. it is true that maybe down the road you will reconcile and it is positive that he has not yet cut communication with you, but you really need to stick with NC (including snapchats). i know you’ve worked hard, but 3 months is not such a long time to wait when it comes to successful reconciliation. you both need some time and space to let the dust settle. he is clearly confused and you are emotional. complete the 30 days of NC to put some space between yourself and the situation and try your best to focus on other things to make you happy. the fact is, he does not want to reconcile now. he’s had chances to tell you he wants to, but he doesnt now. give him some time and space and don’t drive yourself crazy over analyzing in the mean time
it is and thats why its important to go NC. because anything he says like this will give you hope that he wants to reconcile and that might not be the case. thats why not talking will make you start to feel better and only then will you be able to truly go about reconciling. also it will make you more attractive to be less available to him
The last time i did NC, He told me at 4 in the morning “Some nights I miss you” I didn’t really reply…I was trying to sleep…I want him to miss me. i just thought it was really cute that he said that and still has it…even though its just a tiny pendent lol
@confused_girl I think that you need that time to work on yourself. Your Ex might appreciate some space too. It does sound like you have a good chance of creating a false friendship which will lead to future dates with your Ex if you learn how to stay strong and on top of your emotions though.
How does it sound like I have a good chance for that? How do I even make a false friendship?
My ex did that to me too, I made a funny status and next thing I see, he’s not my friend…it kinda hurt
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