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@Samuel I would say that itbis a tricky one to judge. My Ex describes me as her best friend but I was obviously more than just her best friend too.
You have made mistakes like I have and probably most others on here have. These mistakes you seem to have recognised and you know that they have pushed her further away.
I am still making mistakes I think so I really am not the best person to judge anyone else’s situation.
We all still have a shot at something, especially if the lines of communication are left open. How much of a chance any of us has is all just guess work.
Some days I feel like I have a good chance still, other days I am not sure of that at all and feel like I should end all communication to limit any further damage.
I lost man my ex is out of reach by what i see, her sister says she dosent hate me and her mom tells me i should find a girl that will make me forget her daughter
@aryyan I am trying to remain at least a friend to her but I have told her that she hasn’t been making it easy for me.
We need to have some kind of ground rules if we are to rescue a lasting friendship from what we had, let alone the chance of rekindling a relationship.
I realise what you are saying and that it could prove that I may get another chance. My Ex has never ruled this out but has always claimed that she doesn’t want to lose me from her life.
I need to try and work through this a bit longer, you are right.
As for your situation, perhaps starting a new period of NC would be best? I think that you need to give him more time to assess the relationship he is in from what you say. If he contacts you then talk to him but keep the conversations short. Try and make him see what he is missing a little. It is still early days in his new relationship and anything could happen there. You seem a lovely girl so my advice would be that you should focus on yourself and try to move on a little. Don’t turn your back on him if he approaches you though.
@samuel If only finding somebody so special was as easy done.as it was said hey?
I generally tend to meet somembody I am really in to about once every 5 years. I think the older that I get even that low strike rate could be decreasing.
We all have to face the possibility that our ex’s may not give us another chance.
@sparky mine wont and its pretty sad
See i thought she was hidding her relationship from me but now when i asked her if o could give her the letter tonight she flat out told me that she was seeing her bf and also added this “:/”
I’ve never met someone who actually liked the person I am. Who let me be myself and accepted me. Who’s as weird as me. He’s the one who has done all of that. And we clicked so easily, like it was nothing. We had an amazing connection. Either of us hasnt done that before…I know we belong together…we’re soulmates. I know we’ll get back together…I can feel it in my heart
@confused girl
Probably i surely hope so for you, as for me i’ll hand in the letter and see what happens im done running after my ex i can clearly see she dosent give a damn
@samuel @Sparky @Confused_girl
Im giving up. Really. Seeing someone hugging a person that i love and he update it like he proud of it, it hurts my heart like a knife cutting my heart really deep and slow. I feel like i cant even give a shot because he didnt allow me to give me space. I really dont have a hope or chance. Im very sad. There is nothing i can do. Believe me i dont think the letter will make him reply. We did clear it out once but it seems like he is moved on even tho too fast! Its been two months now and they seems bety happy, good in progress and nothing arguement in their relationship so far. Im doomed. I give up this time. Really. I dont know anyghing of any of this step will make him come back to me. None. I think i should guve up and move on. I dont deserve to be love by him. Who am i…? If im lovely girl…why i cant havr him…he seems not give any damn about me at all! Im like a stonr. Not a diamond. Its all about her! He didnt reply me at all! Im not kmportant to him anymore. Im done
You and i need a time out! We are overthinking i believe. What i think is going to happen is they will come back to their senses some time but for now they are into their new partner. Im giving her the letter and i know she lives in the past so she will most likely keep it and when things will go bad with the new guy she will look at the letter hopefully and contact me
Until then i will go and date other women and enjoy life because its pointless to waste my time winning someone who dosent want me in their life.
Its sad they throw us like so eAsy and be happy without us so soon
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