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  • #21613
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    Still. You received it indirectly. Well my ex didnt. At all. He didnt even like my status. Or he didnt realized anything. So do u think she will reply yours?

    To be honest, this letter i actually kinda did it directly when i met him after we broke up few weeks after that. We made it clear and i said im fine with this broke up, i respect him, i hope we still be close and care for each other. He hug me and i hug him. And that time he said that im getting slimming a bit, and my skin getting better and he said he loves my smell. I thought i made it. Until i saw he with her grtting sweeter and so…i start my Nc. I dont know whether i should write again the letter thing with the same understanding. I feel give up because i dont even get a shot since he didnt reply me. I have so many things to show him but he seems not interested i guess? Sigh.


    @Confused_Girl

    Me too. I did it. But when i look at it. The cons is the thing that i can handle. But right now… I dont have a chance to prove it. U do have chance to prove it. U dont need to be so confused or overthinking really

    #21614
    Confused_Girl
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    I can prove it? And am I honestly overthinking today?

    #21616
    aryyan
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    Yes you are. You need to calm your mind seriously. And you need to calm yourself. Because your mind drives u crazy even good things try to enter your head

    #21619
    aryyan
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    I saw his update last night in social media. And he said “waxing is fun until you leave it for too long and it clings…like your clingy ex lol”

    I even checked my last text and all. It didnt sound clingy at all. It didnt sound needy at all. Did he talked about me? Or maybe he is waxing and his gf said that to hin and he found that funny?? I did clingy thing and beedy thing but its been more than a month i stop doing that because i didnt contact him like a month. Its not about me right?

    #21630
    Confused_Girl
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    My ex made some statuses about me and it hurt…and then he deleted me. I wanna add him again but idk yet. Try googling what he said and see if it’s a joke. It sounds like one to me

    #21632
    aryyan
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    @Confused_Girl

    I know its like a joke but…does it hurt u if u were his ex? Or u just laugh and there is nothing to worry about?

    #21633
    Confused_Girl
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    I would be kind of hurt. But I’m sensitive sooooo

    #21635
    aryyan
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    @Confused_Girl


    @Aphrodite

    Nope. I didnt chase him. I did my Nc almost a month. And i started to text him. I told him my interesting activities. Everything seems fine we talked normal and laugh and he fell asleep. And the next day, i went to lunch with my friends like a lunch buffet. I post it up in social media. My friends also post it up. Bit my ex bf liked his status about that lunch! He didnt like my status at all. And i said ok its fine. Perhaps his gf will see that. And suddenly he text me and said “what a lovely lunch u had” and i text him 3 hours later and i said “yah. Got promotion. Hows your fever anyway?” And he didnt reply for the next 24 hours. So i sent him general news about flooding nowadays. And he did reply very normal. And i teplied him at midnight. He seems like hot and cold but he asked why im check in hospital? And i said ohh have to do some surgery things. And we talked about it and he seems like he cares a bit. Like a friend. And then when i asked about him hows his life, he fell asleep. Its very very general and not chasing text. Its very normal and we got things to talk about and its not our relationship at all. He read my last text this morning and he didnt reply. I tried to look every single words. There is nooooo wrong in there.

    So u tell me about it? Is there any clingy part?

    #21637
    Confused_Girl
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    I don’t see it as being clingy or needy

    #21638
    aryyan
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    @Confused_Girl

    Exactly. I dont feel that i have hope to get him back if he keeps ignore my text like this…. If i could…break them up! Urgh! But i cant.

    #21639
    Confused_Girl
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    That’s how I felt. And now I’m pretty sure he hates her. He hasn’t snapchatted me today 🙁

    #21643
    aryyan
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    @Confused_Girl

    Urghh if he hates her then its good! I wish he hates that girl. Im so mean but i love him so much

    #21644
    Confused_Girl
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    I knew she wasn’t worth a penny from the start. I love my ex too…I cried earlier cause all of this is driving me crazy. I just want my other half back

    #21645
    aryyan
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    @Confused_Girl

    You are overthinking too mucn dear. He is right in front of u in fact he still wants to get your attention. Cant u see that?

    #21646
    Sparky
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    @aryyan I think that other relationships especially rebounds are irrelevant. Who knows whether your Ex is in a rebound or not? If he was sure about the relationship that he was in then I bet that you would bè unlikely to hear anything from him. Pointless asking him about his relationship unless he tells you about it. Even then try yojr best to continue to avoid talking about it.

    My Ex told me about a rebound relationship off her own back. She also told me that she had split up with him off her own back once we got chatting again after I went NC.

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