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December 28, 2014 at 6:04 pm #21584
First do NC 30 days, then you send a letter like the one i posted, then you start texting slowly re attracting, then you start phone calls, then you set up a meet up not a date a meet up something harmless, then you meet him again and finaly you do the perfect date (start by a cofee then proceed to a meal and then to something private just the two of you)
December 28, 2014 at 6:11 pm #21585It will be two possibilities. First its getting better, second she wont respond that much. Its like u finish your NC. When i finished mine, i thought there will be two posibilities, so mine will be second. He wont respond that much. So when u going to snd that letter?
U can send that letter but for me u just have to go with the flow. Start from bottom. Create new relationship
December 28, 2014 at 6:32 pm #21589It’s just driving me insane as the day goes by. I feel that we will get back together sometime. I know what I’ve done wrong, I know why we broke up. We both changed some. He started a new job and I just wasn’t myself for awhile. I wasn’t the silly girl he fell in love with. He got so busy and crap and wanted to see his friends. And I was just fucked up…we grew apart some. And 90% of it is my fault. I’ve apologized before but it was for the way I acted the past couple months.
I’ve worked so hard to get myself and my life back. And I almost have it all…but I need my other half…he knew how To keep my calm and…I can’t explain it. I don’t mean to sound obsessed…we just literally are each other’s other half.
I know there’s still a lot of feeling here and still from him. I know he still loves me and wants me…
I feel like I’ve gotten far and all the stuff he’s done lately…I just don’t know…I know you guys have been helping me a lot today, I just needed to say this. And I still need help
December 28, 2014 at 6:40 pm #21591December 28, 2014 at 7:20 pm #21595December 28, 2014 at 7:36 pm #21596Do u think i should write a letter too? As i thought, he read my text but he didnt reply mine. Sigh. I think i give up right now. Really. I give up. I really dont have a shot even a bit. He didnt allow me to! All he think is her her and her! Sigh! Why they dont even fight or anything! Urgh!
December 28, 2014 at 7:38 pm #21597A relationship that doesn’t fight has trust issues. And it WILL end. I had a relationship like that and I’m happy I’m not with him
December 28, 2014 at 7:49 pm #21599Im tired of crying. Im tired of waiting for his respond. Im tired of everything i planned and its not even close to reveal it because he has her and always about her! Why i cant have some good respond from him like your ex did :(( why i cant have some good compliment from him about like @samuel ex gf did? Why? I did everythinggggg! New looks. New personality. New me. He didnt even notice. I thought they have problem because they didnt update about themselve for two days. Noooooo she update just now and its still about him. Great -.-” having bestfriend as girlfriend. Move on right away after we split up and he already talked about right person?? Whatever. Its not fair. He left me like this at the end he seems happy with her like two months now! Urgh give up!
December 28, 2014 at 7:57 pm #21601Ohhh @aryyan while I feel for you I sometimes wish that I had never had any response from my Ex since I dumped her.
Six months of false hope now and no sign of it ending anytime soon. I’m totally lost! 🙁
December 28, 2014 at 8:01 pm #21602My other previous relationship I never ever had serious fights with the girl as when she got angry with me it all went over my head and she rarely got the response that she was looking for.
Why do yoy think this was?
The answer is that I didn’t care enough to get upset at her picking a fight with me.
December 28, 2014 at 8:02 pm #21604I just had a crying session. And there’s gonna be more. I just want my man back. I know everyone is saying he’s still interested and still wants me. But my mind just goes crazy and I need reassurance…
December 28, 2014 at 8:05 pm #21605“the answer is that I didn’t care enough to get upset at her picking a fight with me.” Is it good thing or bad? My ex bf is a person who does not like to fight and he likes harmony and peace.
Why u feel lost? Did u text her? Is she now with someone else? Or she still have problem? Tell me
December 28, 2014 at 8:06 pm #21606I never received any compliments from my ex, she told them to my mother while having breakfest with her. Do not give up my ex and i have been broken up for 3 months, some are broken up for over a year and still win their ex back thats because they never quite if this men is the one you want you will work for it! Do the pros and cons.
Also i would write a letter if i was you, me its like my last resort haha if this dosent work ill find someone else even though i know my ex will always be the one for me :/
December 28, 2014 at 8:11 pm #21609I did the thing where you write every single thing about your relationship that’s on the homepage on here
December 28, 2014 at 8:25 pm #21611Isn’t relationship rewind made to get your ex back even if they’ve moved on? I wish Kevin was on more so we could get advice from him. I need advice. I don’t completely understand how to use relationship rewind. I’m starting to lose hope…someone help
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