Thinking bout

[Ratedrkidd]

There’s hope for us all man but only time will tell..u have a good day and thankyou

[Rich]

Hi all – I wish I had found this site earlier, or had someone in a similar situation to vent to/with.

My situation: we were together for almost 2 years, living together for a year. Things were noticeably deteriorating for about 2 months before she came home (3 weeks ago) and said she couldn’t be with me anymore. Neither of us communicated too well for a while, which was frustrating for me since I know how critical communication is, and for some reason I kept my feelings to myself far too long and far too often.

I love her still. I was convinced she was my forever, even though we had little disagreements here and there.

I wasn’t happy with myself as a person for the 2 months before she suddenly came home and called it quits – 3 weeks ago. Since then I’ve been trying to communicate and work it out with her, but it was completely one-way, and she was unsure and still in love with me up until last week – she said “it was fading”. And then I found this site.

-I wish I found this site 3 weeks ago.
-I’ve instituted the NC rule for about a week now.
-I need some advice…

**She’s coming by my building next week to pick up her mail… do I stay away or sneak in a letter, or something, into her pile of mail?

[a.z]

Hey Rich,
Don’t do anything.Leave her and anything about her for a little while and focus on yourself.Make positive changes in your life and try to become a happy confident person again.

Here’s a checklist for ending no contact.

-You followed the no contact rule for at least one month.
-You are no longer a mess as you were after the breakup.
-You have made a few positive changes in your life.
-You are absolutely sure that getting back with your ex is a good decision.
-You have gone on at least one date during no contact.
-You have accepted the breakup and you are OK with the fact that you may never get your ex back and this might never work for you.
-You have accepted the fact that even if you don’t get your ex back, you will be fine since there are endless opportunities in the world to find love and happiness.
Follow the 5step plan and it will increase your chances.

[Rich]

Thanks AZ

[Ratedrkidd]

Ok so my ex sent me an email telling me that she forgives me for what I said to her..she emailed me because I guess she got my letter that I sent her through mail. I’m really excited lowkey but is this maybe the step in the right direction and when should I reply.she emailed me a couple of hours ago

[a.z]

Alright then everything is good.You are on the right track.Don’t say anything.You can text her with one of the text versions next week.or (in 4 or 5 days)
She is expecting you to be excited and she is expecting another email and you should do the exact opposite thing.
Remember she doesn’t have to get any signal that makes her sure that you want to get back with her.

Good luck

[Ratedrkidd]

AZ

So college semester starts Monday what’s the next step to dealing with my ex after today’s results

[Ratedrkidd]

Jus curious I sent her a letter through the mail friday she Recieved it saturday afternoon and then emailed me saying that she forgives me..now even tho she has a boyfriend and all do you think when she is alone that she is probably reading the letter I wrote her over and over again. And since she did email me and I didn’t respond back.should I respond back? How do I respond back? And when should I respond back? And was me sending her a letter breaking the no contact rule? Do you think that since I didn’t respond she will probably try and approach me tommorow or one day this week since the college semester is starting tommorow?

[Ratedrkidd]

And what would be some signs that my ex maybe missing me badly? Especially since she will probably be seeing me at school this week? College btw.

[sunshinegirl]

Dear Ratedrkidd –

Here’s a link that may help 🙂

8 Signs That Mean Your Ex Wants You Back (Despite Being Scared)

[Ratedrkidd]

Jus curious I sent her a letter through the mail friday she Recieved it saturday afternoon and then emailed me saying that she forgives me..now even tho she has a boyfriend and all do you think when she is alone that she is probably reading the letter I wrote her over and over again. And since she did email me and I didn’t respond back.should I respond back? How do I respond back? And when should I respond back? And was me sending her a letter breaking the no contact rule? Do you think that since I didn’t respond she will probably try and approach me tommorow or one day this week since the college semester is starting tommorow?

[Ratedrkidd]

Am I truely in competition with my ex new bf

[a.z]

Hey,
Did she ask you something in her email? If yes you can reply to her and just answer to her question in a cool way.If she didn’t ask anything then you don’t need to say anything.
You should wait a few more days and then you can text her with one of the text versions.Or you can wait for her to contact you.
Always be happy and confident especially when she is around.When you see her,Be cool and positive.If she tries to have a conversation with you,act like friends.play it cool and take everything slow.Don’t talk about anything personal and keep the conversation short.

Best of Luck

[Ratedrkidd]

I have a question. Do y’all think that I am truely in competition with my ex new bf

[Ratedrkidd]

Aye no lie I’m really scared about seeing my ex tommorow or this week

[Author]

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